What should I do?

benhurensohn · 2020-12-08T18:43:51+00:00

Right now:

make sure she is not lying about the pregnancy (meet her in person and let her take a test)
make sure the kid is yours (do a test)
sit her down and ask her about her plans. Tell her what you want. I assume that you want abortion. Don't get pressured in the moment by her crying or accusing you. You will regret. Better bring a friend or even better an attorney

Later on:

start putting money aside for either an abortion or child support. This shit gets really expensive, so better save up now
never ever have unprotected sex with someone you don't know. Not even once. It's never worth it

jjj2576 · 2020-12-08T18:38:00+00:00

Abort.

i-am-the-prize · 2020-12-08T20:48:17+00:00

can it be yours? did you wear a condom? did you personally flush it and see it go byebye?

Whole-Pea1870 · 2020-12-08T19:30:04+00:00

The side bar has a "got a stranger pregnant guide". I recommend to read that and apply it to your situation.

First thing first, make sure you get a paternity test

AceMav21 · 2020-12-08T20:21:24+00:00

Sprint as fast a you can North, South, East, West whatever direction... Doesn’t matter, run like Forest Gump somewhere far far away, preferably beyond the reach of any family court that could get you for child support.

Title	What should I do?
Author	Throwy26264
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	December 8, 2020 5:53 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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