Met this woman on Tinder (first sign?) that asked me to come over since it was her last night in my city. Before I got there she asked for nudes through text which I of course didn't do. I get to the hotel where she and her coworker are. Within 5 minutes I'm in her room. Within two minutes of being in her room she's taking off my clothes and kissing me all over.
We finish then go outside to talk with her coworker and some other people visiting my city from out of the country. They talk about going to a bar pretty soon. I have work in the morning so I didn't plan on going anyway but we had good conversation about their trip so far and it was their last night there. Tinder asks if I want to go and I said I don't think so. I asked if she wanted to go back into the room and she didn't say anything. Then weed was brought up by someone and she said she'd go get the joint. I didn't follow her and stayed there to talk.
Her coworker goes over to Tinder's room and is knocking on it repeatedly. Then he comes over to me after a few minutes go by (I hadn't even noticed he was knocking for so long since I kept talking to the others, learning about France) then he shows me his phone. She had texted him and asks him to get me out of there. He was like "sorry buddy, I don't know what the fuck this is about". Now I was about to leave anyway because of work but I'd rather leave on a good note than a weird one. I have no idea what went wrong. I didn't do anything. It definitely wasn't the sex. It was basic and nothing I hadn't done 100 times with other girls who've become plates. Everything was good until I asked if she wanted to go back to the room. I feel she just flipped but as someone with previous social anxiety I keep reading into this thinking I may have said something at least. Before I even made it to my car she had unmatched me.
Could I have done something different? I texted her and said "lol nice meeting you. Have a safe trip back" but I'm not saying shit else. It's over and done with but just in case a similar situation comes up I want to handle it better.
Cliffs:
Meet girl on Tinder who is visiting from out of town
I go over there and she's outside with some people (a coworker and others staying at the hotel visiting from Europe)
We go to her room and have basic sex
We go outside and talk with the others who mention going to a bar
She goes back to the room when weed is brought up by someone
I didn't follow and stay to talk with the others. I need to leave soon due to work and am not going to the bar.
Her coworker goes over to her room to get something and keeps knocking. She locked the door.
He comes over to me and shows the text messages she sent saying to get me out of there.
I didn't do anything except talk to the other people though. Sex we had was basic and nothing I hadn't done 100 times with other women who became plates.
Social anxiety crept in a little after this happened.
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