What's wrong with me?

TheRedTriad · 2019-02-11T19:02:02+00:00

You are a man, not a bitch. Stop acting like a bitch.

She would drop you in an instant if the other guy showed up. She doesn’t give a shit about you if what you say is true.

If her hypergamy would deem you fit, she would never risk loosing you over an ex. I assume you are low-value yourself if this is happening and you are trying to “fix” it and negotiate attraction. Clench your teeth, step out of the relationship and invest in yourself instead of her.

It is harsh, life is harsh, only way it gets easier is if you get stronger.

Don_Draper27 · 2019-02-11T20:38:44+00:00

She's already moved on and fucking other dudes. Most likely her ex.
You're getting CUCKED AF.
Best thing you can do is completely ghost her. Delete / block everything from her. Trash / burn anything she's given you or reminds you of her. Completely erase her from your life. Delete all nudes (or in your case, all pics of her in her bra).
Delete her from your life and read the sidebar.

throwitdownman · 2019-02-11T19:56:18+00:00

You’ve got to shatter your old blue pulled self. You’re not the problem, she is.

What you are feeling is the feeling of being cucked. It’s a survival trait. You KNOW who she wants. You KNOW who she will get with should you two breakup. You KNOW it’ll feel like shit to watch the two get together and have the story play out. You KNOW you will feel bad when she inevitably posts a photo with her ex, with a lovey caption. Its an inevitable car crash and your BP self is trying it’s best to ‘save the relationship’ so you don’t have to experience the feeling of being defeated.

But wait! Here in TRP we are solution oriented. First, understand you can not negotiate desire. If she wants him, there is nothing you can do. ‘She’s not yours, it’s just your turn’. Second, seeing the image of her getting rammed by her ex is not a good feeling - I suggest blocking her on all platforms. Third, get your confidence back by developing abundance. Go to the club, and get a rebound. Keep going out. Make new friends, lift, use tinder, all the while dropping uglier plates for newer hotter plates. Constantly have sex, and you’ll forget about her way quicker than she will forget about you.

CSauceHockey · 2019-02-11T19:44:23+00:00

If my LTR did what yours did by that response on instagram I would kick her fucking ass and never talk to that whore again. Fuck, just reading that made me feel bad for you, get angry and tell that bitch to get the fuck out. Go fuck some babes and game. (And lift)

HurricaneHugues · 2019-02-11T23:14:23+00:00

Your relationship is already over. She just hasnt explicitely said it yet. Take the lead and breakup with her over text, with no explanation. Then delete her number, her text thread, her photos on your phone, and delete her off all your social media accounts.

The reason why youre so weak in the face of a breakup is because you believe she is he last living woman innthe galaxy. After her you will be bound to a lifetime of celibacy and deep solitude. That's what your problem is. You need to realize that she really ain't shit and that there are other women out there. Better yet, it's better to be with nobody than it is to ge with someone who doesn't want you.

Break up with over text with no explanation, and then ghost her.

buttgoogler · 2019-02-11T23:21:22+00:00

and she replied with, "I wish you were there..."

and I know that she wants to break up

And she's still your LTR? Your scarcity mindset is making you a bitch.

MrFiles · 2019-02-12T00:16:43+00:00

Because you don't have options. Get your game up bro

chazthundergut · 2019-02-12T01:10:45+00:00

You're pussy whipped that's all.

Eventually you will find your self respect and your balls and next this goofy bitch

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-02-12T01:29:31+00:00

You can get butthurt, or tackle her thinking and devalue it.

I'd laugh, and tell her she's an idiot for being attracted to a guy who if he had value, would be fucking other bitches and not writing on Instagram. A dude who is pining, cuz he lost a girl. He's extremely unattractive, but she really just likes the validation. I'd tell her I thought she liked men, but if she wants to go back to a guy she isn't really attracted to, she is free to leave, cuz I am a real man and it'd be easy to replace her...not waste my time on Instagram.

Fuck with her head.

Jabbermouth · 2019-02-12T06:53:01+00:00

Oh look, you misspelled ex LTR in the first sentence.

imtheoneimmortal · 2019-02-11T18:35:31+00:00

Game others guy the relationship is gone If you want just leaver her before she does

Don’t waste energy on this, is easier and better for you to meet others girls

Title	What's wrong with me?
Author	cuztrp
Upvotes	5
Comments	33
Date	February 11, 2019 6:30 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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