I hung out with this girl last week for the first time (Thursday) and successfully got laid by the end of the night. I texted her a few days later saying I had a good time and that we’ll link up again the following week, to which she responded positively. It’s been about a day since I sent that text.

Now, I want to set up the second date for this weekend. I want to to take her bowling at a spot near my place. My question is, should I ask her when she’s free/what her availability is looking like? Or, should I say something like “Lets go bowling Thursday night around 10” and if she’s busy, suggest another time/date? I don’t want to seem too pushy, yet I feel that asking her when she’s free makes me seem too available. What do you think?