Why Do High Value Men Often Act Cool While Women Are So Often Shitty?

CompetitiveAd4912 · 2021-01-29T17:03:51+00:00

Men build a rope team, women build a network. If you're low value you are not of any use for a woman and might aswell be dead.

OttoVonBismark71 · 2021-01-29T17:32:58+00:00

You're not making an apples-to-apples comparison here.

Yes, high SMV guys tend to be nice to lower SMV guys. You're not competition. They're okay with boosting you up. I often take lower SMV men under my wing. I remember when I saw low SMV, and I know it's appreciated.

Average women treat you like shit because they don't want you to think you have a chance with them. They're insecure about their own value. You're not much worse than them. They also don't want to lead you on.

High SMV women would be nice to you as often as high SMV men would be. The difference being: it's not like a high SMV woman can "coach" you because she still won't know shit about the SMP. But she'll be nice in her own way. You may think "oh, so she'll let me be her orbiter!" But that's a toxic mindset to have. Don't orbit if you don't want to, but it's not like she's going to let you smash, so that's the nicest she could be to you. And yes, many would be willing to do that.

DoubleConversation4 · 2021-01-29T19:05:58+00:00

Tribal mechanism, Alpha of the tribe will always try to shape the weaker members of the tribe into stronger, better individuals so they will have the maximum chance of survival. They don't think of themselves, they have the responsibility to protect the tribe. They're leaders. Women, however, only think about themselves.

Thus, "Winners build each other up, losers bring each other down"

Conversely, even average SMV women could not care if I died.

Women's survival depends on their partner of choice. When your survival depends on your partner, you can't afford to get involved with a weak person. This is why women are ruthless.

Curious because I find it makes vetting more difficult once I became high-value

Look at how they treat others. Especially those who they view as lower value than themselves. Could be a cashier in a market, or a waitress in a restaurant, etc.

How they treat others will be a great indicator of how they will treat you once they manage to you pull you down.

usedtimecapsule · 2021-01-29T22:12:47+00:00

Men build the mansion, women move in.

LukeSkycocker69 · 2021-01-29T18:39:56+00:00

Men and women are on different ends of the socialization spectrum. Men tend to have more substantive connections with their friends whether it be over mutual interests or just enjoy the company. Men don't actively monitor how their actions will affect their perceived social values where as women are the complete opposite. Men don't see other men and automatically assume they are a threat to their social status which makes it easier to have genuine interactions.

Noodlesoupe2 · 2021-01-30T08:12:57+00:00

Biologically you are a threat to women and not to men. Even if you are the wimpiest tiniest man you can still overpower and rape the average woman if there was no one else around. You are not a threat to alpha men since the second you act up he could theoretically kill you in a split second.

cunningcaring · 2021-01-30T20:59:36+00:00

Play them while you have them and don;'t worry about the future. Relationships come and go. You can expect to get dumped many times and you will dump women many times.

MrNeurotypical · 2021-01-31T16:23:03+00:00

You'll see a lot of different answers but the question goes much deeper than most people realize. The real answer is solipsism.

Title	Why Do High Value Men Often Act Cool While Women Are So Often Shitty?
Author	OttoVonBismark71
Upvotes	7
Comments	21
Date	January 29, 2021 4:57 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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