Why does my father get so angry?

mrbonsoir · 2017-12-21T19:44:32+00:00

You sir are coming from what’s called a broken home/dysfunctional family.

I came from the same thing, my father also felt like a curse on my existence for what he does to my mother.

I’m 20 now.

All I can say is, If it’s really bad then get a counselor and then they will weigh your options and start the coping/resilience process.

They might recommend child services or some shit but you’re 15 and almost an adult anyway- what’s the point ?

Again , if it’s a detrimental aspect of your psyche then go for it but don’t expect the state to treat you any better.

They might always be fighting but they try to provide for you at the end of the day.

You need to start doing your own shit- when they fight , leave the house if you can and live in your own world.

That’s how I coped with it. I worked and built myself up and made enough money to get them separated forever. It’s not an option/ability everyone has so I don’t know if there is a long term plan like that for you.

But you gotta be strong kid , stronger then both of them. It was really hard on me but I decided to channel that anger and frustration into shit that makes me money/better at life.

Your father will gets what’s coming to him.

As for why your father does this ? My father did it because he was forced to settle down by HIS parents/societal pressures and he views his wife as the source of his misery so he took it out on her.

Maybe your situation is waaay different, there are many reasons why.

Side tip: Pick your mothers side and give your father the silent treatment and only reply directly to his questions.

When I started ignoring my father , he got the message-you fuck with Mom , you lose your son.

It’s a cruel tactic but it cares enough about you then it just might work.

Aaren_Augustine · 2017-12-21T19:46:31+00:00

He severely lacks frame. Its the sign of a man with little discipline and too much pain. He is a tragedy you will overcome. And how could you not if you understand at 15 what he cannot now?

GayLubeOil · 2017-12-21T19:45:44+00:00

People with low verbal Intelligence can't verbally express themselves so they have to nonverbally express themselves. The lower verbal Intelligence a culture has the more violent it is.

Either way the red pill doesn't belive in being a powerless victim. If you become enough of a physical threat he won't physically engage you.

MilkdunkedOreo · 2017-12-21T19:46:25+00:00

I'm not at all used to Chechen culture in anyway but perhaps this lies deeper and originates from how his father treated him when he was young. Any idea whether your grandfather did this to your father as well?

Chaddeus_Rex · 2017-12-21T22:07:16+00:00

You're chechen, why do you think he's acting that way? Also, how do you know english so well?

faissaloo · 2017-12-22T11:10:52+00:00

He was likely treated similarly and as a result has the emotional maturity of a child.

ShotgunTRP · 2017-12-22T05:00:20+00:00

What do you want to achieve in life?

TRPAndNofapGotMeLaid · 2017-12-21T20:00:50+00:00

Contact the authorities.

Conor_Niggregor · 2017-12-22T11:10:05+00:00

He grabbed me by my hair and slammed my skull against the wall when I was 10.

aww bless your heart. you want a titty to suck on?

He grabbed me by my hair and slammed my skull against the wall when I was 10.

He just has a low IQ, motherfucker. tell him to shut the fuck up or you'll fuck him in the ass

Title	Why does my father get so angry?
Author	DemiGodDeni
Upvotes	10
Comments	22
Date	December 21, 2017 6:55 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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