Why does TRP hate sluts, but also complain about not getting laid enough?

seedang · 2015-10-15T19:44:52+00:00

who says TRP hates sluts?

edit: I understand that OP is a troll post, but I think what you're mistaking is this:

People who first come to TRP are angry that "their" girl turned out to be a slut. Women will always go after the top X% of men, and the men who complain about not getting laid enough will not get laid by them no matter how sexually liberated the women become.

Further, men are, in general, not attracted to promiscuous women when looking for a long term relationship. This is ingrained in our core being and will not change no matter how many slutwalks they go on. Women are free to ride as many cocks as they please, but we are free to reject them afterwards, and will continue doing so.

fnordsnord · 2015-10-15T20:12:50+00:00

Because we're not one guy speaking in a monolithic voice. Some of us are players who want a high notch count. Others of us are marriage-minded, and want low-N women to LTR-up.

TopTRP · 2015-10-15T19:46:09+00:00

The TRP sub is made up of vastly different people.

Some may want a healthy LTR and thus lament the fact that sluts aren't LTR material.

Some may want to slam as much vag as possible, and welcome the fact that sluts are easy.

TRP is supposed to be a knowledge-base.

It opens men's eyes to how women operate at an instinctive level, and how society at large tries to hide/ignore/hamster these behaviors.

This is where you're getting confused. When a post in TRP is made that points out the hypocrisy of a woman's behavior, it's not because the author HATES sluts.

It's to provide examples for the userbase of how women act, which is usually contrary to what they've been raised to believe.

Phyzis · 2015-10-15T19:56:29+00:00

The angry are the loudest. I don't hate sluts, I just know them. They aren't the type to LTR or to have kids with.

A lot of 'hate' towards sluts stems from thinking a slut is a good girl then realizing, through her actions, that she's not.

[deleted] · 2015-10-15T20:07:13+00:00

TRP hates what male/female dynamics have become. We don't hate women...sluts included. But we do hate how being a slut is glorified to the point where there are not any marriage worthy women out there any more. But yet men are shamed and expected to marry these sluts and pay for them when the slut decided to abandon the relationship. This would be like a tenant abandoning a lease and then the state makes the landlord pay of the tenant for the next forever.

JugglingSoManyThings · 2015-10-15T19:34:58+00:00

The ones complaining are still angry.

I appreciate sluts as much as I appreciate a good girl, just for very different reasons.

Darft · 2015-10-15T20:10:43+00:00

We dont hate sluts, go be a slut for all I care, but dont expect the men you fuck to be solid LTR material, and dont whine when men turn you down for being to slutty.

RP-Doctor · 2015-10-15T20:14:44+00:00

TRP doesn't hate sluts. TRP thinks sluts are bad marriage material. Think about who is bitter and resentful towards women. Is it the seasoned RP man who gets laid regularly and has lots of fun interacting with women? Or, is it the new blue pill guy who is here because his latest girlfriend cheated on him? Who is going to submit an angry post? The blue pill guy. The guy who doesn't understand women and resents that he can't get them. He sees girls who are getting what he wants so easily (sex), and giving it away to other guys who do understand women.

Seasoned RP guys are grateful for sluts. These guys are thankful that there is an imbalance in this world, and that they can have their cake and eat it too, just like women who have sex with hot guys when they're young and then settle down with someone reasonable when they're older. They recognize that they can take women for who they are, just like women do for men.

TRP recognizes people for the value they provide. Objectively, a good girl can provide everything a slut can provide except easy sex with a new person, but a slut can't provide everything a good girl can provide. So when we want easy sex with a new person, we look for sluts. When we want anything more, we look for good girls. Some try to say that girls who sleep around are perfectly capable of being faithful, but we're logical. We don't follow our emotions. We look at actions, not words, and her actions say that she's not happiest with a single person, or she has nothing to provide to make other guys stick around. Why would we risk our life, love, happiness, and finances on the idea that we've got a girl in the minority of sluts that will buck the trend?

stillnoturday · 2015-10-16T12:07:24+00:00

Sluts are only bad for LTR..... read side bar or keep white knighting either one

GarnetLantern · 2015-10-16T19:57:17+00:00

Because not all men here are looking for the same thing with women, Some want a good healthy marriage (it is possible, rare, but possible), some want ltrs, some want strs, some one some fwbs, some want weekenders/ons, and others just want to build their confidence up with women.

If you are looking for marriage, the worst kind of woman you can find is a slut. Some of the angry is from the lies. Look if you've been smashed by 20 guys, own it. Don't bullshit and say it's only been a few. Then again, there's really no point in asking a woman's count anyways unless you plan on wifing her ass.

You know aren't the first to climb Everest, so why bothering asking how many others have reached that peak? Just be glad you are on that peak/putting her legs back now.

notmyusualreddit · 2015-10-16T07:36:01+00:00

What people hate is when girls say theyre good girls, act like good girls when theyre with you, extract resources (time and money) based on the fact that theyre good girls, but they 1) were recently sluts 2) are still currently sluts.

That pisses people off.

I spent a while in Thailand. I did a lot of hookers. I genuinely, honestly, in all sincerity, liked a few of the hookers more as people and girls to hang out with than I did several tinder hookups Ive had.

I had a girl cheat on me once when I was younger, and I tried to forgive her because it was her first bf, her ex right before me, yada yada. I hated that bitch with every fiber of my being in the next few months.

I could MARRY an ex thailand hooker and easily be happier with her than I could have been with a lying cheating slut that promised she was reformed but deep down I knew she was rotten.

Its not about being a slut. Its about being a god damn fucking liar.

Title	Why does TRP hate sluts, but also complain about not getting laid enough?
Author	albertperiwinkle
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Date	October 15, 2015 7:31 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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