Why don't men use dual mating strategy?

amwfhunter · 2020-01-07T17:43:50+00:00

I've been using this for years except I dont know if I ever want to get married again or have kids. Seems like way too much work. Other than passing down knowledge, genes and wealth, I see very little benefit of having a kid. It conflicts with my lifestyle.

Forsaken4321 · 2020-01-07T17:59:37+00:00

But to be honest, there are somethings you just dont do to the mother of your children.

Sidechicks are for that.

Yep it requires ressources and time. Unless you are a multimillionait who doesnthave to work no harem for you.

Millionairs are the king class people today. Common folk like we are never had harems

RedSkeller · 2020-01-07T17:55:12+00:00

Both require resources as a man. You need money, time and energy to finesse both a family, wife and home. Not to mention the impossibility of finding a virgin. Then you’re going to have a harem of women on top of that? Managing even 3 plates is pretty much a part time job. Even Leo doesn’t do that full time and doesn’t bother with the family aspect because it’s such a bum deal, the court will rape men of resources in the name of preserving the family so it’s no longer advantageous or viable:

Modern women show up with a young body and tight pussy that they’re born with. Government provides the safety net for children and society generally takes care of the rest. Modern women provide nothing, demand everything and act like Queens. Women don’t have to think, are not held accountable and some even actively leech. In my opinion those that do this are the lowest of the low, cancer of society.

Men, if anything are smarter for not utilizing the dual mating strategy because most can’t afford it, will end up in prison or dead for knocking up or marrying a woman, or will burden society because they’re responsible for their actions.

Already sounds like you’ve picked sides with trying to justify women’s shitty behavior with the way you phrased your question.

empatheticapathetic · 2020-01-07T20:21:13+00:00

Most men would like to do this. But it’s hard to achieve. You’d have to be peak man (looks, money, status, frame, build etc) to get a peak woman (young, hot, virgin etc) and vice versa.

Women will end up with something that’s kind of alpha if they can pull it off. And men (who are in the competition) will end up with some girl who’s kind of fuckable and tolerable if they can pull it off.

But it’s 2020 and long term relationships are dying since hypergamy is less restrained.

cherrykitty87 · 2020-01-08T01:33:19+00:00

Is this extremely common?

I’ve read that this strategy actually makes relationships better if the man can have sex with other women but have an exclusive LTR.

The problem is, most women would NOT be okay with this , because women experience and feel differently about sex then men do.

I talked about this with my bf. For men, sex is like eating. Eating is nice. Men love eating , and it’s literally just that simple. Make sure you feed your man every day or more, if he wishes. If a man eats with another woman other than his LTR/girl , doesn’t mean he no longer loves her, he simply wanted to eat with the pretty lady.

It would benefit relationships more if women could understand that men have a different thought process regarding sex.

Forsaken4321 · 2020-01-07T17:53:51+00:00

Well because whoring around is only official allowed to women.

And you will get divorce raped.

But i must admit i had a side chick for half of a year i banged twice a month and my gf often asked me ohh how come your in such a good mood this weekeng. ( because i was fucking my spirit out from wednesday to thursday) even made the sex with gf better .. lol ..

But be sure to wear condoms. Dont wanna bring something nasty home

IXseed · 2020-01-07T18:04:45+00:00

Rich folk or men from good families

There you go. You COULD do this but it would take a REALLY good bottom bitch (You're not only asking for a unicorn in no. 1 but she ALSO has to be ok with never getting exclusivity) and a ton or resources / be such a a high value man to pull it off.

Most of us couldn't or don't want kids, so spinning plates it is.

2020-01-07T18:13:01+00:00

Excuse me, but how does the red pill NOT already propose this? This is basic red pill. My only qualm is that you should change the word Dual to Multi. Why only two?

If your SMV is high enough, they will accept it. Then it is simply a matter of How much time/money/jizz do I want to devote to more partners?

TrenTookMyBalls · 2020-01-07T18:27:14+00:00

Because women get offers thrown at them for nothing and men have to put in work to meet women. Men that don't have to work to get women often do exactly what you described.

xoxuv · 2020-01-07T20:01:43+00:00

Why don't more men just do what women do and have a dual mating strategy?

Find a virgin for marriage and children

Bang harlots on the side for pleasure

That's exactly what men do, except the ones who had been brainwashed out of it by the blue pill

bigmaddenguy · 2020-01-08T02:44:18+00:00

Lots of people who are capable do do this.

hoopingblob · 2020-01-08T12:03:34+00:00

Sure... Until she finds out and decides to suit the shit out of you. You will lose your money, house and your women.

This ain't older times where you could slap your wife for being a bitch. The government is on our asses and they will do anything to support the women, meaning if she finds out you had a Harem she will fucking ruin you just to save her ego.

And don't think you can charm her into submission, women are not stupid they know that they can get yo ass whenever they want to.

Hungboy6969420 · 2020-01-07T17:52:00+00:00

Came to this conclusion recently too

i-am-the-prize · 2020-01-07T20:49:10+00:00

I came across a JRE with Brett Weinstein about the difference between beauty and 'hotness' and how they are truly different in attraction and what they attract.

" Bret Weinstein and Heather Heying are former professors of Evolutionary Biology at Evergreen State College"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HYJFgyqs0sM

all is good, but 49 minutes is the part I'm thinking of... Interesting viewpoint which would feed into a dual mating strategy, that our ancestors may have enjoyed.

Title	Why don't men use dual mating strategy?
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Date	January 7, 2020 5:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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