Why would she come back?

[deleted] · 2013-09-23T17:22:56+00:00

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James_Coook · 2013-09-23T20:44:30+00:00

Dude I had the EXACT same thing happen to me. Except for me it was like three years after I stopped calling the chick. Anyways this broad just randomly called me one day and tried to re-initiate contact. In her case, she got a big surprise because I was already married by then and actually expecting my first kid in a few weeks. She was basically hunting for a beta provider to marry at that point. I tried to friend-zone this broad but she kept on trying to get me to do her favors. One time she actually wanted to co-sign on a fucking mortgage for her. I don't know why she would ever ask that...I barely knew the broad. In your case, I think she just ran out of orbiters or her other romantic options fizzled out. NOBODY just randomly calls someone out of the blue without a reason. I would try to game her and if that doesn't work friend-zone her and use her as a pivot to get more chicks. If she doesn't want to serve as a pivot / wing or tries to cock block just cut off contact. Good luck and try to let us know how everything turns out.

clack-a-lack · 2013-09-23T16:32:43+00:00

You could use her to practice your game if you feel so inclined, just avoid giving her the emotional validation she's seeking from you. In other words tease her, play with her, neg her, but don't give her what she wants.

JenzelWashington · 2013-09-23T19:05:50+00:00

She tried to do better but couldn't.

Quick second question: how do you deal with the disgust you felt with women when you first learned the truth? I've having a hard time to just accept it and more on it.

Its their nature the sooner you realize the better off you'll be.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2013-09-25T01:00:18+00:00

she missed the fact "we weren't friends".

You mostly failed this shit-test by still acting like her "friend" instead of immediately making demands on her or .

Translation: all the Alpha's she's fucking keep next-ing her because of her bullshit/drama. Now she's all alone and feeling slut remorse...... and thinks she can still use you as an emotional tampon.

This would be a good time to immediately tell her to come over to your house, bring a bottle of wine, and she can "get back in touch" with you.

If she agrees, escalate kino, (I like the "ladder" method) Try to kiss-close, then kick her out of your house. Once you've K-closed, the rest shouldn't be too difficult.

If she doesn't agree to meet in person, but wants you to keep answering her calls, text her:

"can't talk now my friend Carla is coming over."
"can't talk now I'm watching a movie."

For the most part ignore her. but keep dropping hooks like "hey sexy, how are you doing?" "how's your booty shaking today?"

JenzelWashington · 2013-09-25T20:20:06+00:00

You listen to Patrice so you obviously know what a time hoe is.

JenzelWashington · 2013-09-23T17:38:24+00:00

how do you deal with the disgust you felt with women when you first learned the truth?

Contempt turns into great game. After that phase, you might do what I did and long for something consistent. Turning to a relationship is a different game, but very similar to the single life.

Eventually, you'll get that feeling back when you truly desire someone's company but now with TRP knowledge you can manage the relationship much better.

The time span on these phases will range from months to years. For me, it took 4 years to get from a blue pilled break up in high school, to a red pilled relationship beginning this year.

peopleofthepine · 2013-09-23T19:17:37+00:00

Also something not pointed out here is that women have a strange fascination with anniversaries. I find it interesting that it was almost exactly a year. I had a close friend whose ex-girlfriend would just show up every anniversary of the day they started dating and be very flirty & friendly. Something about it being a year since something happened makes some people spend a lot of time thinking about it.

x7CR7x · 2013-09-23T19:26:26+00:00

Something similar happened to me VERY recently. Still licking my wounds.

I fell for the beta bait before finding TRP. Escaped as soon as I found this.

[deleted] · 2013-09-24T05:54:07+00:00

Quick second question: how do you deal with the disgust you felt with women when you first learned the truth?

Your emotions are a reaction to how you interpret the world around you. Either your perception or your interpretation of women must change in order for the feeling of disgust to go away. However, some things are worthy of disgust and are healthy to avoid, such as irrational hedonistic whores. Save your respect for the women who exert self-control and show you respect in turn, but don't expect these worthwhile women to become plates.

Title	Why would she come back?
Author	JenzelWashington
Upvotes	3
Comments	21
Date	September 23, 2013 4:22 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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