Met a girl from tinder, we went to a bar and played pool. I controlled everything and led the whole date. At the end we made out.

That was 2 weeks ago. She’s been hitting me up more than I’ve been hitting her up and has asked me to hang out but I was busy. When I tried to reschedule she said she worked that day. (She actually did)

Today she messaged me first, I messaged her “drinks tonight?” And she said no because she worked early morning. She offered to do Saturday and I said yes.

She then said “as long as we don’t do pool lol”

I might be overthinking but I want to understand theredpill as well as I can because it’s had the best impact on my dating life than anything else. If agreed and did something other than pool, would I be losing frame? Would it be me giving her control?