I have done research on this and this maybe in the side bar but as I am accessing this from a phone I do not have access to a sidebar.

Let's say hypothetical you and your buddy want to game the same chick. Regardless of whether he is beta or not, is it not counterproductive to put so much value into one female? Would it be better to say oh you like her ok have her (bc idgaf anyway) and I'll go for her (different nice looker)?

Wanted some opinions on this...