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[–]BPasFuck 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You sound like me in my mid-to-late 20s.
Without knowing you or your precise situation, my hunch is that your game is probably shit. And that even though you believe you're red-pill aware, you're still too ego-invested to approach the way you should.
I was yoked, had a prestigious job, some minor local celebrity, and was too chicken shit to get out there and risk rejection.
Consequently, the only 'opportunities' I was allowing myself awareness of were those with the pigs, uggos, and trash I wasn't interested in.
Here's a secret: Chad makes his own opportunities. They don't fall in his lap.
So-- get yourself out there. Do shit you aren't normally doing.
Go up to a bitch.
Say anything.
If you never make a move, you'll never get anywhere.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In my eyes, this pretty much the #1 defining trait that makes a chad. Well said.
[–]RedditAdminsSuck_88 5 points6 points7 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How do you know they are beta?
[–]BionicHawki 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Worry about you man. Worrying about others and their successes is only going to hold you back from your goals. Using others as benchmarks is wise, but not if you're sitting around ogling wondering why? How?
You're already taking the right steps to self improvement. Who fucking knows what that skinny fat/ beta guy is? He could be president of a frat, could come from money, and for all you know she's using him to do her homework.
There is no use in worrying about these things. It's tried and true that if you keep doing the stuff you are currently doing and putting yourself out there success and woman will ultimately come your way brother. Keep grinding.
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[–]itgscv1 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Trp doesn't say only, if you think that you need to go back to reading.
[–]itgscv1 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Only one you can have is money, you don't have lifting of reading, you do those activities.
How is your day game, do you approach? Are you going out and doing interesting things? Are you meeting ne people, building your social circle?
An actual thing trp says is to take action, don't just expect women to fall into your lap. If you don't approach it's only your fault.
Plus you didn't give any context on where you are. Cultures and location has a big influence on smp.
[–]Endorsed ContributorAFPJ 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (22 children) | Copy Link
So how come?
Why do you care? It has nothing to do with you.
[–]AloneOnTheStrange 5 points6 points7 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It kind of does. Looking at the sort of guys the girls you like are into is a great way to determine the qualities you need to improve on. RP is all about facing harsh truths, including honest answers to the question "what does he have that I don't?"
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The harsh truth is that you are still looking outward and you'll never make true progress until you look inward.
[–]AloneOnTheStrange 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Or you can do both...
You don't exist in a vacuum. At some point you have to be comfortable honestly and critically comparing yourself to others. It doesn't mean you should imitate others, or get yourself down because others are doing better than you. It means you need to be aware of the traits that make others successful, outside of reading about it in red pill theory.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nowhere will you hear me say "increased awareness is bad".
[–]Louisie_steezy 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel that answers like this are just "idk" or wholes in the theory that no one really tries to answer to
[–]Rpthrowo 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Have the same prob as OP and curious too.
This answer is like one of those "because I can" that parents give out. We are curious because it technically goes against TRP values I think. The amount of hot chicks in my campus I see with extreme DYEL betas who when you talk to them you realize they are even more beta makes no sense to me and contradicts the whole girls only go for BB once they hit the wall as these chicks are 18-22
[–]jonknownothing 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sound like petty jealousy to me. You need better game bro.
Remember that there is exception from everything and TRP is just awareness not the how to do it all. It can be from your face that looks creepy or you race or anything.
Some context please
[–]Rpthrowo 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe. I've always considered my face to be good looking but I might be biased. Im half spanish but other half is a very attractive ethnicity in which I speak the language of and every chick loves.
I always blame it on my height 5'10, since ive never seen anyone, fat, ugly, skinny, (yolked..obviously), not have a girlfriend/fwb when they are over 6'2...yet I see shorter 5'11 and under, whom are more attractive, better dressed, and jacked yet dont slay.
Thats just physically..in other terms I know 100% my game is off and im not very confident in myself.
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[–]Endorsed ContributorAFPJ 8 points9 points10 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Ow c'mon, some people reek betaness.
So you say, yet he's fucking the chick you whack off to - you're mis-perceiving or failing to perceive some reality. My best guess is that you have focused on external qualities while disregarding internal qualities such as your mindset, conversational skills, the mood you instill in people, etc. Are you fun to be around? Do people feel good around you?
Because if not, doesn't much fucking matter what you look like, what you eat or what you read. People want fun.
[–]Endorsed ContributorAFPJ 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
why is the beta fucking the girl i jack off to? I'm not Ryan Reynolds looking, but better looking than the beta i saw on the subway today with a beer belly, unkept beard and sausage fingers and still with a 7,5/8 GF.
I already answered this in a fairly direct manner:
you have focused on external qualities while disregarding internal qualities
mindset, conversational skills, the mood you instill in people, etc. Are you fun to be around?
So let me be more direct. You have focused too much on external qualities. Everything you describe and take into account when "comparing" yourself is external: you say how you lift, read books, are good looking, you say how a guy on the subway has a beer belly, unkept beard and sausage fingers - all of this shit is external. We get it, this is an area you excel at and so you've fooled yourself into thinking it's the only area that matters. Now back to reality:
While you lift or read and do nothing else, these guys are out and about talking to people, being social, meeting new people / making new friends & introducing / exposing themselves to tens if not hundreds more women than you are.
As a result they're likely much better at talking to people, making people feel good about themselves, being fun to be around - all of which are strong traits of social superiority. If you are liked, you will make your way up the ladder. If all you've got going for you is some muscles and book smarts, you're useless and of zero value to 99% of people.
I already fucking know you have no idea what the real score is because all you talk about is YOU, and shit from YOUR perspective, and what YOU think is important, getting upset because YOU think you're great and these other people are plebs who don't see YOUR greatness. In reality, you're just fucking wrong & too immature to realize or admit it.
It's impossible for me to be any clearer on why "hb8 is wid beta /w beer belly, beard & sausage fingers". It's because your perspective / perception of the world is so warped by your ego that it no longer even remotely resembles reality.
You've lost the ability to see things as they are & are here asking dumb questions because of it.
[–]jonknownothing 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your beta oneitis trait reeks out dude. Stop fapping and go out to get more plates. Remember abundance mentality?
Girls smell desperate dude like you faster than shark smells blood. Go fap more please
[–]BlueBlus -5 points-4 points-3 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Quit worrying about other guys. Are you gay?
Go lift and be the best version of yourself and fuck these girls instead of bitching.
[–]Louisie_steezy 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Im with you man. I wish you could ask the main sub questions like this where there are more experienced people. As for your answer. Im going to assume its because no matter what we say about women, they are still people, and people are very unique and like what they like. She could just actually like the guy. Or they could have been related. Or he could be rich. We never really know.
[–]Smigg_e 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
If all these women are with dudes you think are beta and not with you you're the beta. Lol it's not all about alpha/beta shit. Just cause you work out doesn't mean entitled to women. That fact you're hella jealous and worried about it says your the beta. Be man about your life and what goes on around you. Who gives a fuck?
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[–]Smigg_e 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I know what you're feeling. I'm just being harsh. Honestly, stop caring about that shit. Maybe you're trying too hard and relying on validation from a women too much? Women can sense that shit. Being aloof is important in a way that you don't need nooo bitch. Who cares if a girl likes you. I think you're just too invested in having someone be into you. Real confidence means you don't need anyone. Reject girls. That's what I mean by who gives a shit. I think you're thinking too much about it.
[–]jonknownothing 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you are still beta in anger phase. Go back later when you lose your virginity
[–]thatblondeguy_ 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why do you think they're beta when they are the ones who fuk those girls you can't get?
[–]ecosci 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
GOT RESOURCES,MONEY?
[–]struggleswithbuggles 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girls always want different things. These betas probably have something you don't have.
[–]RedBigMan 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Young hoties with betas?
My bet would be said betas have lots of money. Large amounts of wealth can get even beta dudes laid easily.
[–]RedBigMan 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women will do all sorts of mental gymnatics to justify marrying a rich beta... once that ring is on and she gets half his shit the relationship goes to shit too because now she doesn't need to fuck rich billy beta to access his resources the state will force him to give her half of everything plus a premium if shes managed to cuck him for what 2 years into taking care of chad's spawn.
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