Average-attractive single mom, we see each other casually. She even sort of acts as a sugarmom, buys me all these things. I always mention to her, random names of other women I talk to jokingly.

She doesn't seem to mind. It feels like she'd probably want me to make her a primary.

I know trp generally advise against SMs but if the sex is good and she isn't too clingy, and sort of gets my lifestyle, is it possible to turn them into a sort of, far orbit, family friend w/ benefits?

It seems too perfect. They're too busy to want to pursue a relationship, they know the deal and just generally want sex. Atleast the ones I screen... But is slow, joking, nonchalant party guy a good approach to making this work?

What are some signs to watch out for because I know most would eventually want to lock in a beta to be a pseudo provider for their spawns. This is if they have not moved out yet