I’ve been dating this girl for around 4 months (prefer to be in relationships, before oneitis and get more bitches responses), sex is good never have any issues with her apart from minor stupid disagreements. She’s been travelling with her aunt for a couple weeks so we just text daily.

Today I was just trying to tease her and called her a lesbian because she kissed her female friend when we were in a club, obviously I thought this was a joke and I think she knows it as well but she got really offended by it so she started to get pissy about it; I just read her angry messages and ignored it. A couple hours later she texts and writes a paragraph about how what I said was rude, I also called he crazy which in Brazil is meant to be really offensive idk.

Went sort of beta by apologising while saying I thought that she would think of it as a joke/teasing. She said ok but never do it again, I say okay and now she’s saying she needs a couple of days to “get over it”. Really don’t understand the drama behind it but I can only assume she’s being high maintenance and attention seeking.

The issue is is that we are going on vacation in a week and I just want to calm the situation down before hand but seeing some annoying characteristics in her. Is it best to just leave it a couple days and wait for her to text first. I also suck at texting and is probably why I got myself in this situation but still learning.