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Failed shit test

November 30, 2021

Been sleeping with this girl for over a year, FwB situation during lockdown where we would meet at a party, drink and then hook up. We never exchanged socials and never contacted each other so we would purely just see each other at parties.

A couple of months ago I got her number and started to message her, she would always reply 8+ hours later or just completely ghost but we would still meet-up at parties/nightclubs and then hook up afterwards. Occasionally I will message her and get needy and angrily reply asking why she’s ignoring me, 1st fail.

We haven’t slept together in about 3 weeks and we only met each other a handful of times at parties but never slept together mostly because she doesn’t want to hookup with me when she’s with a lot of her female friends. I understand it’s not going to evolve into a deep relationship but purely FwB so I don’t care that she wants our hook ups to be isolated with her friend groups.

Last night though we were both at a nightclub and I was just purely blanking her and never spoke a word with her all night while talking to other girls, I know that she was noticing. After we left the club she was flirting and getting close to another guy and at this point I was quite drunk so I walked other to her and asked what was she doing and asked if she was with this guy being noticeably angry. 2nd fail.

I’m going to be seeing her again on Thursday and I’m not sure how to approach it, whether to ignore her and see if I can salvage the shit tests or whether I should talk to her about it or just to drop the plate in general and move on.

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Title Failed shit test
Author patrickbirch
Upvotes 6
Comments 10
Date November 30, 2021 8:58 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/newTRP/failed-shit-test.1095257
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/newTRP/comments/r5x987/failed_shit_test/
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[–]Give_Praise_Unto_Me 15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You're the plate.

[–]themostgianthorse 4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Meet up and ignore the incident.

Explaining shit to her is going to dry her up like the damn Sahara. No DEERing.

I don’t know why you would drop her if you want to keep a plate/potential FWB when she still wants to meet up.

If she brings it up, A&A.

Her “you seemed a little upset I was talking to Tim the other night.”

You: “I was. I’ve already given your dad 3 goats and am not sure if I can get them back.”

If you are anything like me, alcohol can make you lose frame pretty quick. You need to manage this better. If you’re getting in your feels, you had too much.

[–]banditjuice 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

What is that example 🤣

[–]themostgianthorse 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Haha just what came to me.

[–]patrickbirch[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I agree, I was in control of the situation before I had too much to drink but also mixed with impatience because we normally leave the parties together early but this night it was getting late and let my emotions get the better of me.

[–]themostgianthorse 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Eh. It happens. When I sense myself getting in my feels, I silently ask myself “who’s frame are you in?” and it zaps me back.

[–]lolomotif12 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Are you spinning other plates? If not tou need to immediately to develop abundance.

Sounds like you've got oneitis for your FWB because like I said, no abundance.

[–]Meloxian 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Go ahead and jump off a bridge, you failed a meaningless shit test, from some fucking plate

Get some fucking abundance, is $6.99 a can at your local dollar store.


Agree and amplify yourself, to get yourself in a confident frame. Then throw her a shit test or two her way, and pass the next couple she gives you. Don’t acknowledge it, don’t talk to her about it.

[–]ajajaj99 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Abundance is resistant to inflation?

[–]Meloxian 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, start buying calls on $ABD

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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