23 year old virgin,New here.

Mouthpiece · 2017-08-26T19:10:49+00:00

Stop thinking of, and describing yourself, as a virgin. The fact you haven't yet had sex is no more a part of your identity than the fact you've never been to Reykjavik.

Unless you make it that way.

If you, as a child, learned to walk and talk, you can, as an adult, learn to fuck. You are the descendant of thousands of generations of successful fuckers. You're literally evolved to do this. The more you overthink it, the more you'll get in your own way.

Afraid you'll be bad your first time? Who cares? It's practice. You'll get better every time you do it. So go out and do it.

DMZ_Dragon · 2017-08-26T18:44:19+00:00

How about something completely different: Pretend you're an actor. You are playing a role. The role you choose is up to you; it's a big movie and the budget is infinite.

Use this to practice whatever style, personality or quirks you prefer. After all, once the movie ends, you'll be you again and nothing will have changed, so there are no risks to trying out whatever you like. Be shy one day, be James Bond the next. Be a confident virgin who has chosen not to sleep around because he's waiting for the one.

Find which roles and personality traits are most fun to you. Use those in real life.

haksli · 2017-08-26T16:22:24+00:00

Problems like that take some time to resolve. Identify the things that you would want to do. And then start doing baby steps.

Jewfag_Cuntpuncher · 2017-08-26T15:57:04+00:00

Alcohol might help

Title	23 year old virgin,New here.
Author	Chris909090
Upvotes	12
Comments	5
Date	August 26, 2017 2:36 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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