Male, 23. I’m still a virgin and in college, and I'm trying to change that. People say in college it’s super easy to get laid, that everyone is lonely and horny. They talk like it’s just asking a random person. In college (where I live, there aren't any college parties at my college, I wish), I feel if I do that, I would just be a creep—so I'm obviously not doing that.

I need help, or even better, give me an example of a time it worked for you and what you did. I can’t, for the life of me, understand how to navigate or even picture what to say to get to that end goal. I work better if you can give me examples and understand the things I should be saying to help me. I don’t have friends who are good in this field, so I’m kinda fucked. I really wanna flip the script; I know I can do it.
I also fear if I was to approach a girl in a club, for example, she would just kinda ignore me, so I don’t know how to get them interested either. I know there’s a lot to cover here, but it would really help me out with this stuff. I feel like a loser having to ask this but this is all I got.