How often does it happen that you see an really attractive girl but you fear to approach her? You know you'll probably never see her again if you don't take this opportunity, but your fear of approaching robs you of the hot sex that you crave. Your balls say yes, but your brain says no.

You think to yourself:

"What if she rejects me, and everybody sees and laughs at me?"

"How should I open her?"

"What if I run out of things to say?"

You might come up with excuses so as to not approach her by thinking things like:

She's with her friends?

She looks busy?

She doesn't look happy.

People are watching.

She's walking too fast.

And the list goes on and on....

This my friends is called Approach Anxiety (AA), and it robs many a PUA of sex. No matter how experienced, all PUAs have AA. The good news, however, is that the more approaches you do, the less AA you have. It's like lifting weights. The more you lift, the stronger you get.

When I was in college, there was this really hot babe that I liked. She was the hottest girl in my year. Every guy at the college wanted her.

There was a rumor that she was dating an older guy outside of college. This made us students very intimidated because we all thought that she liked the old guy because he had money. So, we thought we didn't stand a chance. Did I mention that this chick was a bombshell?!

A friend of mine was dating one of her friends. His girlfriend told the hot girl, her name is Liz, that I liked her. So, Liz knew of me, and knew that I liked her. The stage was set!

Being a hot chick, Liz was always surrounded by her friends, wherever she went. I would walk past them, between lectures, and I would nearly shit my pants when they looked at me. They didn't look at me in a threatening way. They smiled at me!

To set the record straight, I'm not a good looking guy. I would say that I'm average looking (I hope).

So why did Liz and her friends smile at me when they saw me? It's because they knew that I liked Liz. They expected me to open them.

But, being a major AFC at the time, to me their smiles felt like how a stranger chick would smile at you, if she saw your dick after you just got out of an icy lake.

I was shit scared and I misinterpreted the sign!

To cut a long story short, another guy ended up being the first guy to bang Liz at college. The guy was short and kinda ugly. But he was fearless, and he ended up getting the prize, while I slept with my textbooks. :(

Today, after having done many approaches, my confidence around women has greatly improved. I'm able to open a set of chicks, even when there's a guy with them. I still have get AA, but it's not as bad because I have many positive past references.

I've put together 3 steps that you can take, starting today, to improve your confidence around women. This advice is for the guy who shits himself when he wants to approach a HB.

So if you're starting out or if you've been on and off Game, these steps will build your confidence and get your momentum going.

To get the most from these 3 steps (program), you must take action everyday. You must be consistent.

Each step will take you 1 hour, at most, to complete.

This program is designed for the day, so you don't have an excuse not to follow through.

If you're a student/freelancer/unemployed, then do it during the day. If you work, then take action during your lunch break and/or after work.

Please note, your goal is to slowly build up your confidence - if you happen to score, great - so approach any chick, no matter her rating.

Start approaching as soon as you leave your house. There shouldn't be more than 15 minutes break between each approach. Remember the 3-seconds approach rule.

Remember to smile when talking to women. As Mystery once said, "Guys that don't smile, don't get laid."

Step 1: Ask for the Time/Directions

For two days in a row, for each day, ask 10 women for:

Either the time or for directions to whichever place comes to mind.

Step 2: Give Her A Compliment

For two days in a row, for each day, approach 10 women:

Give the HB a compliment about her overall style or shoes. Women love fashion, especially shoes.

Just say: "Hi, I just wanted to say, I love your style (or shoes)! You look good. Enjoy the rest of your day!"

Move to the next target after you've given the compliment.

If you're feeling brave, you can say, 'You look sexy'.

Step 3: Where Did You Buy X? I Want To Get It For My Sister.

For two days in a row, for each day, approach 10 women:

Give the compliment (see Step 2), but instead of saying goodbye, do the following:

Ask the HB where she bought the clothing item you complimented her on. Tell her that you like it and that you think your sister will like it as her birthday present.

Most likely the HB will ask you questions about your sister. Like how old she's turning and what she's in to. Think of an age that makes sense for you.

The conversation should flow naturally. Just pretend you're talking to a guy. If you run out of things to say, thank her and move on to the next HB.

If you've never gamed before, approaching 10 girls per day might seem like a lot. But that is just how the game is played. Game is all about numbers. The more you approach, the wider the Universe spreads Her sexy legs. It's a refined numbers game.

These steps take 6 days to complete. If you take action everyday, by the 6th day you'll have built up powerful confidence. You'll be ready to learn advanced skills.

I've only given you one opener because I think game shouldn't be about memorizing routines. One should learn a framework, not lines, because a framework is flexible and it allows the PUA to be his improved self.

If you would like my free guide, F-Close: The Confidence Building 30 Day Challenge, send me a private message.

Remember, Game is all about taking action. Get out there and start talking to women, and you will get laid!