5 steps to instantly appear confident

galactic_fury · 2017-05-01T05:26:38+00:00

TL DR: - Confidence == more of how you feel, perceive yourself; - Charisma == other people listening when you speak, being interested;

5 tips:

be genuinely interested in people, they will usually reciprocate
talk with a lot of expression, don't sound like you're bored
mirror the other person; adjusting body language to match the other person--- Mirror Posture --- Mirror Speaking
Eye contact
Be humble -- don't brag -- admit failures -- show other people praise

I would still recommend seeing the video, as it seems like good content and good cinematography.

Vistian · 2017-04-30T18:54:05+00:00

Looks like OP didn't catch the video's differentiation between confidence and charisma. ;-)

Trotsky3112 · 2017-04-30T22:56:06+00:00

Confidence is internal and people attribute negative traits to ugly people and good traits to good looking people, so it doesn't even matter if you are confident or not, if you are ugly you will be perceived as not confident and if you are good looking and not confident you will still be perceived as confident.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halo_effect

Title	5 steps to instantly appear confident
Author	delasjefe
Upvotes	37
Comments	5
Date	April 30, 2017 3:59 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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