Yes! This time I didn't write "daygame" in the post title haha. Anyways, winter is coming, it's kinda sad for many daygamers I guess. But you know, what? Girls, who would be at the park at hot days will be at shopping malls, less distance to walk xD
1) A girl in a shoe shop. I opened her and she instantly smiled, but then she said she thought it's her friend. She told she dances and he looks a lot like me. Anyways, I started to talk a bit about the shoes, I wanted to tell her that male sneakers are so heavy and impractical in hot summer and girls should be happy with their clothing, blablabla, but then she received a call, she told it's from her bf. She started to talk and I pulled my phone just to see Facebook, I was thinking that she will speak only for a while, but after two minutes she was still in. I tapped on her shoulder and showed she could put it off but she just told she will do it in a while. Of course she didn't do that, so I just also made a call and in meanwhile I got out. Why waste a time over someone, who doesn't respect my effort..
2) A girl at food court. I came up to her and told "hi, it's unusual situation, I know, but I saw you from there (arm on shoulder, pointing a direction) and I thought you look great in that shirt". She was kinda stressed out at first, I continued and said "No worries, I'd like to take a sit so I can talk with you". I noticed that my posture is leaned towards her, I fixed that, so a) I don't look like a creep, b) I feel more comfortable. I sat on a chair nearby and took a loosely posture and I started to vibe off basing on her clothing, I assumed she looks like a teacher, I high-fived her, because she was also wearing adidas sneakers, I laughed a bit from the fact she has definietely too much books in her bag for a college student. But then she responded, she's in middle school yet. I could tell some story from myself about middle school (I remeber some funny ones), but yea, I took a long break from pick-up, so I wasn't that smooth. Anyways, we somehow went into hobbies subject, she told me she's training boxing and swimming and is overall interested in martial arts. We shared similiar hobbies, since I was also training karate some long time ago and I was able to be kinda funny about that, but I was also telling something about myself too. At some point she asked, where I study, so I could tell a bit more about myself, honestly I was a bit stressed, cause I couldn't guide the conversation as good as I wish, but I still noticed she is opening and starts to laugh, which is a good sign and I saw she isn't that shy though. After few minutes her friend came by and that was another nice situation, since she asked, how do we know each other. She just said "we met right here few minutes ago", and her friend made a big eyes and replied "wow, so cool!". I count that as a good outcome..
3) A girl near the entrance of shopping mall. I crouched near her, cause she was sitting (and there wasn't any more space left) and I opened her and introduced to myself. She was younger than I thought, and I vibed off from her reading a book (when opening I told she looks pleasantly while reading a book). She told me she's reading a criminal book and I was sharing the same taste as her. So I told her about how I started reading books and such, she was very shy, like she was talking to her book, not looking at me much and she leaned a bit towards the wall as I told her I'm going to sit near her (that's what I did later). She had to go after few minutes because her mom was calling her phone, so we said goodbye to ourselves, no hugs, because I don't have to force it. My mistake was that I quickly went into interview mode. It was kinda hard to talk to her, because she wasn't asking questions much, but at the same time I did't feel like she's feeling uncomfortable, because her replies were quite informative.
4) A girl in the shopping mall, she was going fast from one shop to another. I stopped her in one store and opened her, told exactly that I saw her at another store and I wanted to tell her she has a good choice of clothing, so I wanted to talk to her. She smiled and greeted me. I started to talk and told her, she looks like a harry potter fan, maybe thanks to the fact she's wearing glasses. She laughed and agreed, she liked to watch harry potter movies, and I told I was reading books about harry ;P We talked a bit about that and some quiet break came, in which she asked "so, what are going to talk about now?". I replied "well, maybe for example about how fast are you in shopping, i couldn't catch you", she laughed again and told she's going to buy some strap for a dress, we continued our convo, some light kino, etc., and at some moment I decided to ask her out, and then she blasted me with a fact she has a boyfriend. But she also said I made a very good approach ("that harry potter subcjest was great") and I have to be brave to do such thing, because no one has ever approached her before ;)
5) Quickest approach ever. I finished a cig, and next to me there was a girl eating some yoghurt. I opened her, but after my first four words she looked behind me and I saw her boyfriend coming. He asked her, what's happening, so I finished opening her, while he was listening. They both knew now, what I was up to. After that he just kissed her and she said "sorry". They were going away, so I just wished them a nice day. I just felt I still have to say, why I talked to her, and the presence of her boyfriend.. well, it was at uni, I didn't expect anyone aggresive.
6) Next time I chickened out. I saw a girl in pink jumper, she saw me, so we made an eye contact, but at first I didn't think she was that attractive to talk to her, but after another peek I changed my mind. In meanwhile she started to going other way and it looked to me like she's with some friend. So I just followed her a bit, but then I noticed she's entering some building alone, so I just waited a few minutes. She came outside, so I started to walk along her, and then I stopped her without having to stand in front of her. I opened her calmly, saying I'm wandering around and looking for a library, but I just saw her and thought she looks nice and I wanted to talk to her. She laughed, but said immediately she's taken. When I asked her if that's a serious thing she just said "we will see" and she walked away. I think she was lying in that case, nevermind ;) My mistake? I was waiting too long and my open wasn't that strong maybe. Or she just wasn't attracted, I don't care! :D
I think I start to see, when girls lie about having a boyfriend. See, I've already encountered some taken girlfriends, and they aren't reluctant to talk to you. They can still have a conversation with you, tell, for how long they are in a relationship, but they (in general) won't let you date her. On the other side, if a girl (for example that one in pink jumper) says she's taken and starts to walk away in meanwhile.. it's clear, that she's just not interested and probably she's lying about having a boyfriend.
btw, almost every field report starts with words "a girl...", it's kinda lame, but honestly, every approach is very similiar, it's hard to write those things differently. After all, it's not a book :P as always, thanks for reading.
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