In today's report, I'll talk about my new indirect daygame strategy & analyse the date I got in circle game.
-Outline-
a- Solid excused indirect daygame method
b- A date with a circle extension girl
-mini outline-
1- pre-date applications
2- getting arm-to-arm trail
3- separation of the obstacle
4- The time problem
5- Photo capturing problem of her & my ultimatum
6- arm to arm trail
7- End of the date
z1- Overall
z2- post scriptum
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Solid excused indirect daygame method
I've been trying a different kind of daygame because I'm currently in a small city & I try to explore different kinds of games. During my trails, my biggest gambit is my professional photography hobby.
My strategy is the following. I go around the city and look for beautiful girls. I open them: "Hey- I do portrait photography and your face is photogenic. Lemme take a photo of you". It's an indirect opener with a slight compliment. I do a small & fun joke to get a natural smile, then I continue with my DHV story:
"I used to do that professionally in Kyiv... like... I visited my ukrainian gf -we met on a project in Italy- we were walking on the main street, and a guy approached us. He was like... "hey! I'm from Los Angels!" and etc. He told my gf that he could be a modal... Then we found out that he was a modeling agency owner & looking for beautiful girls for his agency. Thanks to this connection, I worked with those guys for a couple of months... like... going around the city, spotting beautiful girls, explaining the situation, taking their pictures & introducing them to the agency, but don't get any ideas... Now, it's just my hobby ;)".
After that story, I go on with my assumptions & open the conversation.
I observed that when it's direct daygame, girls start with a great initial buying temperature. You start the set with a high S&R value because you had the balls to open in this way. Therefore, direct daygame is much easier. However, it dries the field. It's applicable in +1 million cities, I guess. In small cities, you have to follow the harder way: indirect game. Building your value from zero & having a longer path to reveal your intention.
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A date with a circle extension girl
The date girl is the main target in the 74, 75 & 76th reports. To sum the long story up- She had been hitting on me since we met. I stick in A2 attraction step for a too long time- she started to get turned off. After the last party, I wrote to her to meet up & grab some beers. She agreed easily.
I made a plan for the whole date & I was checking my steps on my phone (there are main step shortenings for myself):
* be cool, speak slowly, be direct
1- Riverside
- turning hugg
- how is it going, how was your day?
2- Walking
- chiken, photography, family,
- arm-to-arm
- waist
3- Sitting
- insta.usage,
- hoses- their dicks
- bigger than yours- clitoris- dick
- les.porn
- body.p
- cant focus your smile is so sexy
4- kiss
- you remember the elbows? *suck*
- have you kissed a half greece & h t guy with such a gay neckless?
- Eyes & kiss
- thanks, i'm definetelly gay now
5- cooking
6- Room
- google maps
- childhoold
- fantasies
- last sex?
1- pre-date applications
Before the date time, I started to do daygame to get a talkative mood & practice more. 15 minutes before the date time, I went to the meeting location to meet with girls and make the target to find me with girls to trigger her the pre-selection mechanism.
I opened indirectly to 3 girls group. They were cool girls- we met and spent time together in a fun way. The target came with her friend. I introduced the people, explained the situation. I greeted the group of girls and started to walk with my target & the unexpected obstacle.
2- getting arm-to-arm trail
In the way, she was touching me with her arm, we were at a crowded point, so I wanted to get the step of being arm-to-arm.
- Me: "Shall I make all girls jealous of you?" (that's a mysterious routine).
- She: "what are you gonna do bill?"
- Me: "give me your hand"
- She: "no, bill"
I dont know exactly why she didnt compy.
3- separation of the obstacle
I found out that the obstacle (he was a guy) was there because he wasn't aware of the situation and wanted to hang out with my target. When my target had to talk with her mom on phone, I explained the situation to the obstacle & told him that I would appreciate it if he would have something else to do. He was a cool guy- after a while he said that he needed to go. We were spending a good time with 3 people, and before he goes, I offered to capture some photos with my camera because the view was so cool.
After spending some more good time together, the guy left, I and the target was alone.
4- The time problem
We continued to capture more photos. We were building rapport, having a good time & getting closer physically. However, I was unaware of the fact that the weather was getting dark.
The girl told me that she would need to market to and go back to home because it was getting darker.
I didn't even get the arm-to-arm step. I a kind of pissed off.
5- Photo capturing problem of her & my ultimatum
I wanted to sit for a while with her on a bench, she didn't comply because it was getting darker. We decided to walk a bit together. On the way, instead of talking to me, she was constantly capturing photos on her phone. She wanted me to capture some photos of her. I was getting more pissed off because I hate social media addicted girls posting stories every 10 minutes.
After a point, I stopped and wanted her to put her phone in her pocket by saying that I was there to spend time with her. She was confused and told me that she could capture photos when she wants. After that answer, I opened my arms and said okay then, I'll go back by implying a goodbye-hug.
She didn't give me a goodbye hug, stopped to capture photos & initiated the conversation, so we continued. The topics we were talking about was so-non-sexualised. I didnt try to sexualise the topic because of the fact that there were 10~ minutes left. I at least wanted to get arm to arm.
6- arm to arm trail
She asked me what kinds of cities I like. I said the cities where I'm with people I like- She started to talk again & I interrupted her by saying "you talk a lot- I like to walk on streets peacefully- give me your hand". She gave her hand. I put it on my arm, she giggled slightly, but after 4~ seconds, she attempted to get it off.
When I realised it, I squished her hand by my arm to hold it there, and I took her hand by using my hand and threw it away by saying "for more, you gotta pay".
My delivery was terrible in the stage of IOD calibration. I should have been more reflexive- squishing her hand was... creepy. Additionally, my mood had lowered, so I couldn't deliver the line of "for more, you gotta pay" properly.
7- End of the date
After 2 minutes of her taking her hand off on my arm, I stopped and told her that I need to go in this direction. my mood was bad, I was doing a fake smile. I told her it was cool, we got some cool photos.
She agreed and amplified- She encouraged me to post my photos, the ones she captured. She told me that "okayy... we can meet again on..? weekend?...". I told her "could be, let's stay in touch".
I gave her a goodbye hug & we left.
Her mood was still high, unlike mine. We finished it in a good way, I guess.
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z1- Overall
The time problem unexpectedly occurred. Nobody was guilty of that. It was just unlucky. I was disappointed because of the fact that my plan did not go well. Instead, I should have been aware of it and calibrated myself for the second date in a better way.
Nevertheless, I believe I held my frame & I applied my planned routines without anxiety & hesitation. I feel I'm getting better.
Because I really turned off in the part of 5- Photo capturing problem of her & my ultimatum, I plan to focus on my secondary target in my circle. I'll freeze out this girl till Sunday. On Saturday, I'll recall the fact that today's beers were on me and she owes me a beer- I'll invite her on the second date.
z2- post scriptum
I'm in the stage of finding my own writing style. My first style was "the whole story+feedbacks", the second was "feedbacks+relevant story parts" and that one has been "story+relevant feedback parts".
Do not hesitate to give me feedback on both my game & my style.
Ciao bros.
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