80% process, what should i do in the last step

knightgod1177 · 2020-01-08T23:43:43+00:00

Nothing. Keep seeing other women. If she’s only now starting to show interest, then she sounds pretty shallow. Chances are she’d drop you for someone hotter, or end things if you ever stop looking fit.

That said, if she had been your “best friend” for 3 years, things might work but I doubt it. In any case, ask her out to drinks. Do dates where you can be physical and intimate, avoid super friendly shit. Consecutive dates and getting more in tune/familiar with each other lead to a relationship. In the meantime, keep seeing other women.

Workamaholic · 2020-01-09T04:05:05+00:00

90% of comments on this sub are like back-door-bragging. Like everyone is a hardened vagina-veteran or something. It’s hilarious and also kinda sad.

Anyway... You’re doing things right and you have her attention so kudos. If you want to get into a relationship with her though this is a hard transition and a hard sell. Doesn’t mean it can’t happen, it’s just risky for her. She’s getting a lot of what she wants out of your relationship and won’t want to jeopardize it. So, before you get into this, make sure it’s something you want. A long time ago I was in the friend zone with a girl hard, I changed things up in my own life and started dating other women and got her attention, but after I had changed I realized that being in the friend zone with her was in the end actually what I wanted and I’m glad we never got in a relationship or messed around. Don’t know if we’d still be friends if we did and she is the best wingwoman in the fucking world now.

Anyway, enough storytelling. You want to be her boyfriend then start escalating and acting that way. Boyfriends plan dates, they lead, they set up opportunities for sex. Keep a sharp eye on her indicators of attraction. Make strong confident eye contact with her and see how she responds. If you act confidently, touch her, hug her, and she reciprocates. Maybe you’ve got a chance. If you feel like there’s a moment, kiss first, talk later. Seems like you know this but please do not tell her how you feel. Mostly just because it invariably comes off like you’re setting expectations or negotiating an if/than agreement. It’s just so... bleck.

Your experience may vary but one of my favorites is brushing the hair out of a woman’s eyes for her. If she recoils and is like what the fuck are you doing, that’s pretty a solid indicator that she’s not interested, but If she lets you and watches intently while you do it, pretty good chance she wants to kiss you. I don’t know, more of a trick, not guaranteed to work but maybe it will help.

omega_kush · 2020-01-09T02:04:14+00:00

The chick i was into a few years ago turned out like that. It ended really badly after 18 months. I nailed her for a month, but i could honestly say the juice wasnt worth the squeeze in the end. Go for a chicks that are into you from the beginning. If you want a relationship dont say shit about it. Let her bring it up and play dumb.

Title	80% process, what should i do in the last step
Author	yeexuu
Upvotes	4
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Date	January 8, 2020 7:28 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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