Hey seddit,

So I’ve come to an interesting crossroads in my life. I’d never thought I’d find myself here to be honest. Long story short: I’m seeing this one girl now and it’s kind of growing into a relationship.

Thing is, I’ve incorporate and embraced so much of a PUA lifestyle that I’m afraid of the consequences of doing this. I don’t ever want to turn off my “game”, I want to constantly evolve and push my boundaries. But I feel like entering another relationship (I’ve been single for 8 months now) would ruin those chances.

I still want to be able to grab girls numbers for the thrill of it, flirt with them, see how they tick. I enjoy being able to talk to the opposite sex, even if I get flat out rejected. I reflect, write down my mistakes rinse and repeat. I’ve always tried my absolute hardest to live by the motto “Leave them better than you found them.”

But there will be morally and emotional backlash to practice pickup if I enter a relationship. Oh, and I will not cheat on anybody. Forgot to mention that. What would seddit do in this case?

My plan (if you’d like to comment on it):

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  • Game on until we both agree to a relationship
  • Game women but I can only friendzone them/hang out. No out of relationship sex or makeouts.
  • Make intentions clear, continue lifestyle put don’t let this (potential) relationship dictate who you evolve in. Enjoy the ride.