Hey Seddit. Long time lurker, occasional commenter, first time poster in need of your sage wisdom. Here is the situation:

Went out for my buddy's stag last Friday, had an awesome time, we both work in the DJ/AudioVisual/Events scene so he got us mad hookups with a local venue. We all had a great time, and because I didn't know that many people in our group I ended up wandering off to the bar... the dancefloor... meeting people, lots of approaches, solid openings, many opportunities for DHV ('Lording the Club' etc). Long story short, I met an HB8 outside in the smoker's corner, we really hit it off, mutual interests, blah blah blah. I bump into her a couple more times that night and we end up meeting up after closing and going back to her place. Kino escalate the whole cab ride, f-close that night no problem.

Breakfast in the morning, life is good, I decide I like her and I'm going to see her again. We make plans to talk next week (this week) and I leave. I told her a funny story about how I parked my car in a field the night before and I texted her later that day to say I got my car out of the mud and was home-free. All playful and funny. So here begins the problem:

I call Monday to make plans for this week (I'm a busy guy and like to plan ahead) and she picks up on the second ring. The fact that she does this while super hung over I take as a good sign. We talk. She needs to hang up to go throw up, apologizes, then calls me right back. This happens twice. Finally I ask her what her week looks like and suggest she come with me to where my buddy is DJing Thursday night. She says that she is working Wed-Sat (she works nights) and isn't sure. She's still super hung over and unable to process info. I say we'll talk later in the week when she's got her shit more together. End Story.

So, where do I go from here? When do I call her? Do I suggest the same plan/night or something the following week? Is she legit busy? and will I scare her off if I push too hard too soon?

TL;DR Met an awesome girl Friday, f-close the same night, left things ambiguous when I called her Monday to make plans. I'm looking for a proper time line for making contact. What do?

Thanks for reading. Looking forward to the feedback