We get frustrated. We feel like the world is in different to our desires. We read we read we read we read and then we become confused about the conflicting opinions.

Allow things to come together organically. You don't have to do this in a step-by-step manner. Do it in the way that works best for you. Just take action.

You don't need more information. You don't need to perfect line. It doesn't matter that she has headphones in. No everyone in the grocery store isn't going to turn around and start laughing at you like it's a broadway musical.

Everyone on tinder isn't a bot. All women don't hate(insert your ethnic group here)

What is your payoff? What is my pay off? Why do we want to lose so fucking bad sometimes?

This is the primary question. There's a part of us that wants to lose so bad Iitcan taste it. It is addicted to our self-pity, to our disempowerment.

The good news is every single human being that you see on the street has the same part of them. That girl that you want to talk to, she has a part of her that feels she isn't good enough.

Therefore if you walk up with a strong frame she will enter your reality. You're not seeing reality. You're seeing a distorted version of reality.

That part of you does not want to die. It is addicted to the chemicals. It is addicted to the self-pity. It is addicted to the anger. Why do you think people lose their minds? They are addicted to negative energy. They have formed an identity around it.

The quitting mind wants you to hate everyone. It wants you to hate women. It is frustrated and angry. But it doesn't get results. It doesn't get anything accomplished. It just rages and then attacks its victim. You.

If you don't fall into resentment and confusion nothing can stop you.