Tldr: Abundance makes for a better man.

Recently I had a beautiful accident: My freelance work piled on me jobs, I had a final in my class, and I was on a winning streak with getting numbers and setting up dates, racking up 7 numbers in a period of a few days. This does not even include the fact that I discovered a new RSD lair in my city and found other PUAs to network with. Not to mention that I joined a new gym.

This is abundance in multiple facets of life. This abundance saturated my time, to the point where I could only text logistics with women. That was ok, as I am sure this led to an air of mystery on my part, instead of texting inane stuff just for the sake of keeping in touch.

Lesson learned: Create abundance in your life. Go out and get phone numbers. Text minimally and only logistics. Your time is valuable, you should be spending it making money, learning, getting more numbers, networking, and exercising.

Girls will weed themselves out. By the time they've figured out it's not a good match, you've already moved on to the next one.

There is no such thing as "the one". There is simply what will suffice your needs, whether it is love, companionship, sex, or whatever.

I looked scarcity in the face and beat it with abundance. I went out, got numbers, and got busy with my life.