Advice for a College bound 18 year old guy?

CentralValleyAsian · 2015-06-08T03:33:05+00:00

Going into college? Here's some stuff I wish I'd done my Freshman year:

Read the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People". After you read this book, always be reading a book, whether fiction or non-fiction. Reading increases intelligence which, simultaneously, allows you to be smarter with girls.
Learn what it means to be cool, calm, and collected. Also learn how to be non-needy. Learn how to make an emotional connection (I.e. "You know, after getting to know you, I realized you're pretty cool to be around. I'm glad I got to meet you")
Learn kino escalation.
Join some kind of organization on campus, whether fraternity or club. I personally am in two fraternities (Professional and social). Just remember, being in a fraternity helps get girls, but doesn't exactly mean you'll be swimming in pussy. Make sure they don't haze if you plan on joining one. These are low-life fraternities that need to find happiness through other's suffering; they are guys you don't want to be your role models. Fortunately, both my fraternities are filled with all sorts of gaming and anime nerds like myself.
Work out. I regret, completely, not doing this my freshman year. Try the workout routine called "Stronglifts 5X5" if you're new to working out.
Hang out with people you desire to become. If you want to be good with girls, you have to be around guys that are pretty competent with girls. Observe how they act, and mimic it until it becomes natural.
Build a social circle with chicks that are hot and have similar interests. This will desensitize how you act around girls over time given nothing happens between you and them.
Learn basic fashion. You'll feel more confident about yourself. Particularly, the Kinowear Bible book and the Kinowear website are good places to check out.

I could go on, but I'd suggest tackling one at a time. Tell you what, since I do a bit of coaching with other college students, feel free to message me during college. I'll be more than glad to indicate where you should go in order to achieve your desired goal.

loser2winner · 2015-06-08T02:14:44+00:00

http://www.loser2winner.com/how-to-choose-a-college/

kornylol · 2015-06-08T04:59:32+00:00

Work out. Start now.

jayhovaasmywitness · 2015-06-08T09:08:56+00:00

Try to get some sexual experience before leaving for college, have some fun, join a social fraternity, try to live close to campus, DO NOT SLACK ON SCHOOL that shit is a bitch to make up

superandy241 · 2015-06-08T02:00:00+00:00

Join a (cool) fraternity

matt2nyy · 2015-06-08T03:41:20+00:00

For those suggesting I join a frat, I forgot to mention that the greek life in my school is pretty small. I don't think i will be joining a frat, but hey, ya never know.

BurntScooby · 2015-06-08T09:54:03+00:00

I go to a chicago "bar" school more so than party school with a slightly larger student body. I just wrapped up my first year a bit ago, and hands down the best thing I did was to make sure to open open OPEN all the time. Just meet new people. Don't always have the intent of going out and getting fucked up, or getting laid, just genuinely try to meet people. But when you want something out of a night (getting drunk, getting laid, what have you) do things to attain your goal obviously. Practice sets, practice just talking to people as a whole. Establish yourself as someone people want to talk to.

chiliehead · 2015-06-08T10:59:50+00:00

I recommend "Conquer your campus". Just google it, you should find this book easily. Might have some interesting points for you.

thesocialmillennial · 2015-06-09T02:17:33+00:00

Keep and open-mind, respect others, and always be yourself. This is the key to attracting compatible friends and significant others.

612612612612612612 · 2015-06-08T01:59:38+00:00

Definitely join a fraternity

Indianbro · 2015-06-08T03:30:33+00:00

Honestly the whole join a frat hype is dumb. It's not for everyone and you don't need to join one to meet girls. Just be outgoing as hell and talk to literally everyone.

Title	Advice for a College bound 18 year old guy?
Author	matt2nyy
Upvotes	0
Comments	19
Date	June 8, 2015 1:53 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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