So, I'm 23 and I've always been one to take things slow when it comes to dating. While it's worked out alright with a few nice relationships, I want to switch things up a bit. I'm considering trying quicker connections, maybe even one-night stands or short flings.

However. I'm not your typical guy. I'm a bit of an oddball who's not really up to speed on pop culture, and I tend to keep to myself. This makes striking up conversations at bars a bit of a challenge. While I've piqued some initial interest, sealing the deal has proven elusive. Any advice for a guy like me looking to step up his dating game?

I'm not half bad looking, or so I'm told, and I'm in a college town. I just need some direction.

p.s. I'm not a fan of dating apps