Advice for a guy with a stutter?

2014-03-23T12:31:07+00:00

Approach, be confident, kino, etc. The same thing that everyone else does.

Speech therapy.

sambojangles · 2014-03-23T13:15:56+00:00

What about when you talk to friends/family, do you get embarrassed by your stutter with them? I don't think you should think of girls as a different species, just talk to them as you do everyone else.

Also, and I'm not sure this is true, but I heard Samuel L. Jackson has a stutter, but has overcome it by saying "motherfucker" every time he can't come up with a word. Maybe try that? If nothing else it could be funny.

Zack_Fair_ · 2014-03-23T13:25:42+00:00

if you're into the whole showing vulnerability thing then I'm pretty sure there is no better line then looking in her eyes smiling and saying " I'm sorry, I stutter/get nervous around pretty/beautiful women."

if it were me I'd totally follow that up with a neg though.

woolyreasoning · 2014-03-23T16:35:36+00:00

learn to give laconic responses ...

the more you say, the more stupid shit you're likely to say anyway

JohnXSky · 2014-03-23T16:41:00+00:00

Do you have anxiety because that is probably the case when it come to stuttering. When it comes to conversation I would recommend you accept your stutter. (ACCEPT IT 100%) And try to own it and be confident.

LukeSkyLurker · 2014-03-23T18:44:28+00:00

To rid of stutter, try singing your sentences in the shower, or sing along with your favourite tunes. Give it a shot, it worked for m,m,m,me.

ReverendDexter · 2014-03-25T06:22:28+00:00

Take your weakness and find a way to make it a strength.

I have zero experience with stuttering, so I'm just spitballing here. If you're not overly sensitive about it, find some way to make it humorous. Build a some routines around it. Write something pithy on a post-it that you keep in your pocket, and when you start stuttering pull the note out. Pick up just enough mime and/or sign language to use body language/physical comedy when it happens.

Maybe none of those work for you, but you should be able to find some way to adapt and make it work for you.

scythe7 · 2014-03-23T10:34:45+00:00

Alcohol. I stutter normally too, after a few drinks i relax and can talk pretty well and joke around. Dont over do it with the alcohol though, find your sweet spot and dont go overboard, you want to act smooth not stupid.

Title	Advice for a guy with a stutter?
Author	hundykush
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	March 23, 2014 10:17 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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