Advice for the second date

STD_Tyler · 2020-07-23T05:12:58+00:00

No need to kiss, just ask her if she wants to come to your place for some drinks after the movie.

Dont let the positive energy of the first date get in your head too much either, play it cool and dont get too excited.

DaydreamingMister · 2020-07-23T06:55:15+00:00

And make this the final “go see a movie” date of your life unless the girl is already your gf. Ignoring each other while staring at the big screen is no way to open her up and build attraction through engaging conversation.

ProphecyHoarder · 2020-07-23T12:55:19+00:00

but I'm unsure if we're (or rather I) am ready for it.

You are making way too big a deal out of it, just look for the moment and go for it, don't force it.

I've never been in a relationship like this before, and I don't want to sour anything we have

You sat in a car for 2 hours, you don't have anything. If she picks up on this sort of energy you are also never going to have anything with her.

if she doesn't respond to the kiss well

If she doesn't respond well it's because she isn't in to you. If she isn't in to you enough to kiss after 2 dates you aren't recovering from that. Nothing to lose by her responding negatively.

Lastly, reorganise the movie idea, tell her you are going for drinks instead. In what way do you imagine attraction can possible grow by focusing on something else for 2 hours and not talking?

quinnmcd · 2020-07-23T17:51:19+00:00

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Title	Advice for the second date
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Date	July 23, 2020 4:40 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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