Seeing as you're in the community, it's only a matter of time until you start seeing women and find you're not interested in a specific woman for one reason or another and need to call it quits. Here's two solid examples I've found over the years for going about it:

  • If long term, you've lost the "spark"

  • If short term, you don't think you're a good match

The last thing you want to do is assign blame. Going with the above examples keeps things neutral and helps make things go over smoother. Still sucks breaking up, but I've found these to work best. Key is to just keep it short and to the point. Ripping off the band-aid verses the more painful alternative.