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[–]danielinthebox 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She thinks you only use her for sex
[–]Frozen_Existence 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You got 2 choices. 1) be blunt af about it with her and bring it up. Tell her you didn't mean for it to go that way or 2) you can take it slow and meet up with her and not make a move to sleep with her until she feels like she means more to you than a hole.
[–]TardisTechnologist 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She's just playing power games. She wants you to know she's not under your thumb and that you still have to work for it. Two options - a) work for it, she might roll with it when she feels like it but it's unpredictable. b) play the same game back, act like she's not worth the effort even if she is. If you keep her on the back foot she will become keen again, if you let her know she's not worth the games then she will quit playing them. Personally I'd do option B, as option A relies entirely upon her character and mood at the time whereas option B is a more cut-and-dry approach which produces consistent results from a typical female psyche.
[–]SAMPARAD[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I think you are spot on with that, I actually do like her but these games she is playing is really not worth the effort. Thinking I maybe should go cold on her & not text her for an few weeks?
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