Hey guys, I’ve been reading this for a while but never posted. I’m recently out of a great relationship that blew up at the end, and I’m having a hard time getting back out there. I still care about my ex immensely and we have been seeing each other occasionally, but with her moving to another city I feel we are delaying the inevitable.

I’m young (22m), 6’3 and in good shape (a little lanky), have an adorable puppy and I’ve been told by many, many girls my face is “beautiful”. I also live in one of the best college towns in America. Still, I’m having a horrible time getting the confidence to get back out there. Online dating is a shit show, especially in the summers when other students are gone, and I’m not the bar/club type. I find the vast majority of people unbearable so I’ve been shutting myself in. Any tips? I know I want meaningless sex but I’ve never been good at that without chemistry at the very least.