Advice/Tips?

drunkdanielle · 2020-09-02T04:48:41+00:00

Conversation comes naturally, if someone doesn’t like too many questions and you do, it might not be a match. My dude asks like 30 nice questions when I walk in the door and although it can be overwhelming, I wouldn’t want him to change that. I’m just saying maybe don’t change a good trait about yourself.

Or try feeling it out and asking questions more geared to the topic at hand so it doesn’t seem so interviewy. Or ask about less personal things like movies or dogs or something.

Are you asking where do you think you’ll be in 5 years cause that could give off an interview vibe.

Good luck out there!

Zenterus · 2020-09-02T09:30:11+00:00

Honestly, I don't think that you asking questions is the problem, but perhaps its the vibe behind your question asking as well as your input to the topic.

When I'm on a date with a girl, I tend to also ask a lot of questions especially in the beginning, when I'm not really warned up socially. However, I always keep a very playful tone to my questions and also try to keep them interesting and unpredictable.

Another cause of this could be that all you do is ask questions and after you receive an answer you don't give your thoughts on it. Personally if I'm to ask a question while on a date, it's usually because I have an opinion or a thought I want to share on the topic but I would like to hear what she thinks first. This keeps the conversation dynamic, as its often the case that I disagree with the girl's opinion which creates a little conflict, even some sexual tension.

Lastly, I would also advise you to start making more assumptions rather than asking questions. Whenever I feel myself getting into that interview vibe, I always switch it up with assumptions instead. So rather than asking a girl "Where are you from?" You say "You're little bit feisty... lemme guess, you're a latina". It's a lot more interesting to the girl and it also serves the purpose of a question. Even if you're wrong, the girl will likely find it funny that you assumed something about her based on how she is and will give you the correct answer. And if you're right, she will be even more intrigued as to how you guessed it.

So to summarize: ● Be more unpredictable and playful with your questions.

● Don't just ask question after question. When you receive an answer actually give her your hinest opinion on what she's answered.

● Make more assumptions to switch things up.

pua_max · 2020-09-02T06:22:27+00:00

Not the most optimal way, but you can just ramble on interesting stories that mildly relate to what she said.

Title	Advice/Tips?
Author	targindo
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	September 2, 2020 4:31 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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