So I noticed that every time I’m in a situation where I like a girl & the possibility of me meeting her irl arises, my mind automatically goes to thinking about the negative outcomes, my mind firstly tries to see negatives instead of positives which then creates a resistance & a lot of anxiety most of the time leading to disinterest just because I would rather avoid the situation my mind created in the first place, it might be because I’m afraid of being judged by her & by others & I just want to know if anyone else has or ever had a similar problem to mine & what do I do in this situation, how do I fix this as it’s really making me miss out on life.