After breaking the touch barrier and flirting stage, what comes next?

DaygameCode · 2024-01-26T10:20:09+00:00

Step by step:

1 - Opener and setting the playful flirty tone right away. Wanna establish myself as a flirt right away to avoid the small talk and NPC vibe.

2 - Accidental physical touch to break the touch barrier organically.

3 - Switch from impersonal to personal topics of conversation where i get her to talk about herself so she can show the type of person she is and we also can build a solid connection

4 - Make sure that we are isolated to set the stage for flirting without “activating” her defences (slut factor)

5 - Express what i find different about her to justify in a solid way my romantic/sexual interest in the next step. (Getting her to believe she is not just another girl of the countless that i might hit on)

6 - Show/express sexual interest by flirting sexually to create sexual tension and avoid being friendzoned.

7 - Intentional physical touch to test the waters about whether she is ready to be kissed and reinforce the flirtation

8 - Kiss close | Nothing sexual just to reinforce that something romantic is happening, and that she is living a fantasy

9 - Phone close | Suggesting a date idea and if she agrees, then take her number

10 - Consolidate after phone close by talking 2 minutes more fantasising out loud about the upcoming date with her and leave.

11 - First text | An inside joke about the encounter to remind her of the emotional mood she was in before i left.

Hope it helps, and if it doesn’t skip. This is what works for me.

LikeLikeChoi · 2024-01-26T07:30:08+00:00

The snusnu stage.

AceOfSpadesGymBro4 · 2024-01-26T12:24:43+00:00

Tell them "I wanna be on you"

Pantherist · 2024-01-26T08:13:05+00:00

Get her into a more intimate setting and escalate

letsgetwizzyy · 2024-01-26T15:51:56+00:00

The onus is always on the man to escalate 99% of the time. You don't verbalize what you want to do, but rather, demonstrate. You have to be bold and take risks, it's okay if your advances get shot down, just build more attraction and try again. They're becoming less touchy because they're waiting for you to grow some balls and go for it. After escalating, prime them for a kiss so they aren't totally surprised that you go for it, and just do it. Don't ask, don't tell them. Just go. It's not really a big deal in the grand scheme of things.

This discusses how to escalate with a woman from the start of the date up until either making out or sex: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-physically-escalate-with-women?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web

Still-Horror1199 · 2024-01-27T21:58:20+00:00

Whip it out

Title	After breaking the touch barrier and flirting stage, what comes next?
Author	bighommie_
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	January 26, 2024 6:43 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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