Hooked up with a girl a couple nights ago, called her the next morning both said we had fun and she enjoyed her time. Said she’d text me and I wished her a good day. A day ago I reached out and sent her a picture of something I baked, (we talked about this when we met for the first time and she said to send her pictures of shit she’d love to hear about it) all she said was “it looked delicious!” Nothing more nothing less. I thought she would be a little more interested, you know asking “oh what’s that” or other engaging questions. Did I totally “fudge” this up?

Also, in general should the second contact with a woman still be flirty with the same amount of effort you were putting in when you first met her? I feel like in a way you’ve already made a good impression on her you can play it a little safe when it comes to following up/asking them out again. What do you text them after it’s been a couple days, do you just be direct and suggest an activity to hang out again right away or lead with small talk? I’ve been told that gaming over text after you’ve already met can be a waste of time and can be a bit annoying for the girl because she may get confused since you haven’t asked her to hang out again. One final thing, I think I’m thinking correctly that by calling/texting them the day after and saying you had a great time you shouldn’t text them a couple days later on and reiterate that you had a great time… that just sounds repetitive and clingy 😂 Cheers