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| 1 | Should I Join A Church Group Just For The Purpose Of Meeting Women?I see your point but genuinely why is it a bad thing to say “oh yeah I met so and so at the parish picnic” Honestly if someone told their folks that they’d probably be delighted. Assuming they took you to church when you were young, raised you in that denomination, and helped you chose that path. I think it’s better than “oh yeah I met so and so at a frat party, we’re engaged now” | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 12:17 AM |
| -2 | Should I Join A Church Group Just For The Purpose Of Meeting Women?So if you went to a cooking class and someone whose bad at cooking asked you out you’d think it was strange telling people you met him at a cooking class? What’s the difference between that and church? | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 12:15 AM |
| 31 | Should I Join A Church Group Just For The Purpose Of Meeting Women?The poophole is a loophole | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | I get told I am very attractive and am able to sleep with decently attractive women, but never any really attractive onesI second that | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?In addition to those listed above would the stereotype associated with doctors and nurses also apply to pilots and flight attendants? I feel that with anything there are attractive doctors and attractive pilots as well as unattractive people in both careers. Just having that title doesn’t guarantee matches/dates although if you’re attractive AND that title I’m sure it would get you a lot of responses. Just a speculation of course. I have no experience with either career but it’d be kinda cool to… | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here regularly think of suicide?Don’t base your success off the number of women you’re dating. You don’t need a woman to make you happy. If you aren’t happy, getting a honey isn’t gonna change a thing. It’ll be a bandaid on the cannonball sized hole on your sinking ship. You need to sail to port and do some repairs on your ship before attempting to catch more fish. Hate to say it but go out on a bike ride. Walk. Call members of your family. Talk to old friends. SPECIFICALLY OLD FRIENDS. You’ve already said 100 times you don’t … | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zeroListen man. Sorry but I’m not gonna let you say that. You can get out of anything. That’s just another excuse. I have told my mom that she needs to stop saying “I’m sorry” for everything. It got to a point where it was causing me to apologize to everyone for the littlest of things. It bothered me, I told her, problem solved. This mindset of “what’s happening is what’s going to continue no matter what” is a flawed mindset. You’re just a passenger in someone else’s life right now you need to kick … | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zeroOP judging from your excuses… sorry I meant your “reasons” it sounds like you are hoping for a pitty party. Excuse me for being blunt but it sounds like you have a victim mentality. If you want your life to be different you need to act. Hate to break it to you but if you don’t act and take your life seriously, NO ONE will care. You say you live with your grandparents, but you aren’t a caretaker. You aren’t their parents. You’re their grandchild. If they didn’t take measures to better their life … | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Thank YouA walk is not the “least sexual” date you can have. I believe that a coffee date is by far the worst if you’re trying to escalate. Walking is actually very easy to escalate. When you start, grab her hand and lead… don’t look back, just DO. Direct the conversation to something you both enjoy. When she’s done talking or if you see a flower stop her and put the flower in her hair but don’t throw it on her like a weirdo. Brush her hair back (even if none of it is in her face) brush her cheek with yo… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Next move?Yeah OP is an dum dum. He’s copying and pasting the same responses on multiple comments. I believe he thinks creating mystery or whatever is going to get him laid but in all reality of someone’s showing interest and you are playing games you’re just dumb. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Next move?I have a lot to learn? Man if you’re ignoring interest from her you’re not gaining anything. You create mystery to get them interested. If they’re interested already playing stupid games is going to make them uninterested. Express interest or move on. There comes a point where you have to stop playing the game and start showing interest… you aren’t creating mystery you’re ignoring someone whose interested in you. Just puttin that out there | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Next move?I have a lot to learn? Man if you’re ignoring interest from her you’re not gaining anything. You create mystery to get them interested. If they’re interested already playing stupid games is going to make them in interested. Express interest or move on. There comes a point where you have to stop playing the game and start showing interest… you aren’t creating mystery you’re ignoring someone whose interested in you. Just puttin that out there | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | 5 Easy Rules That You Can Do NOW To Increase The Chance Of Finding A Girlfriend“Being yourself” is too broad of a statement and frankly doesn’t work. Telling someone to “be themselves” is not advice. Also all of these are not really advice. It’s just stating facts… yes we all know what women like, what if we go to the gym to make ourselves more confident. Practicing short term memory recall exercises if we are a bad listener. Wearing nicer clothes to boost our appearance. That is advice. Simply stating “be this and that” doesn’t do much good if you don’t offer examples of … | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 06:09 AM |
| 4 | Next move?Dude are you stupid? She is reaching out to you. Play stupid games win stupid prizes. She’s going to move on. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 06:04 AM |
| 1 | I am not desired sexually by womenExactly. Not sure why we’re being downvoted. Sometimes the truth hurts. Women shouldn’t be the center of anyones world but instead a fun addition to one’s life. You shouldn’t feel like you just need a woman and then you’ll be good… doesn’t work like that. Own your own life then and only then can you allow someone else into it. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 03:00 AM |
| 1 | I am not desired sexually by womenDo you communicate that to them subconsciously? If you have to walk up to someone and say “I’m worthy” you aren’t worthy. It’s like saying you’re a good cook. If you call yourself a good cook… you still have much to learn. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 02:58 AM |
| -1 | I am not desired sexually by womenwould you mind sharing with me what your definition of sexual presence is? | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 07:54 PM |
| 0 | I am not desired sexually by womenDon’t know what to tell you man, it’s a mindset. If you don’t like how you’re feeling pick a different mindset. Like I said. If you think you’re ugly then you’re ugly. If you think you’re handsome, the confidence you exhibit will show to women. They’ll pick up on it that you’re someone who is comfortable with themselves… aka “stable” | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 07:42 PM |
| 4 | I am not desired sexually by womenNeed to work on yourself bro. With that mindset you’re not going anywhere. I was 20 years old, balding, 300 lbs, minimal friends… had a 4 year relationship… I wasn’t even actively looking for a relationship it kinda just happened. The second YOU decide YOU aren’t worthy is the moment YOU disqualify yourself from any sort of relationship in your future; friends, SO, family. The second you represent yourself and don’t care what others think, the women will come. Of my now 9 dates from OLD, I have … | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Is it worthwhile trying to date without having a social life first?200k a year… dude move to the closest big city still close to home. Work on yourself. Go to the gym. If you don’t have a gym, buy a bike and ride it on the road. If you don’t have roads. Buy something off Amazon to do pull ups with. Do push-ups, sit-ups, pull-ups, put in the effort. If you decide to move to your new city; start walking around, go to the store, get comfortable, approach people. Like the other guy said if all else fails, go buy a nice car, mod it up, street race and get laid | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 05:41 PM |
| 2 | How do you seduce a porn star / erotic actress?Treat her like any other girl. It’s merely her job title. It’s like asking how to seduce a teacher or engineer. It’s just an occupation. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Was told by a friend from HS I now emit “chad” energy and I’m a “chad”I mean right now, I honestly want to just broaden my sexual horizons if I’m being honest. Find out what I like what I don’t like, “taste every flavor” if you will. This is probably a flawed mindset, although if someone amazing comes along I’d be willing to see where it goes. That’s what happened with my first relationship. I wasn’t really looking for much and then four years later… here I am | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Was told by a friend from HS I now emit “chad” energy and I’m a “chad”Gotta keep working on it. I’ve had a handful of approaches and the first couple were rough. The very first time I went out I was making out with a girl on the dance floor and literally only read step 1 of most seduction because I didn’t think it would happen that fast. After reading more and educating myself I probably could’ve taken that girl home that night and had a lot of fun… I didn’t, I just kissed her for 2 hours at the club then she left with her friends. Had I known I could’ve f closed.… | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Was told by a friend from HS I now emit “chad” energy and I’m a “chad”Counted calories for the first 60 pounds and then after that continued to have a calorie deficit and hit the treadmill for 30 minutes a day. I’ve adjusted my workouts since then to focus more on weights. I wanted to lose the weight first before building muscle because it was easier on my joints. It’s a big accomplishment! Don’t be ferried if you stagnate. I stagnated at 240 for 6 months. Just gotta take a step back and reassess. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Was told by a friend from HS I now emit “chad” energy and I’m a “chad”Sorry for the confusion. I’ve lost 130 lbs. currently 180… bit of lose skin but I want to fill that skin back up with muscle. Thanks for the insight my guy! | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Was told by a friend from HS I now emit “chad” energy and I’m a “chad”I’ve been trying to, I’ve always wanted to have flings and have options… something I’ve never had but I’m getting there. I think a lot of people I meet don’t get the “FWB” vibe but instead the “relationship for ever”vibe. Although I’m upfront with the fact I’m not looking for anything but then they talk to me like we’re in a relationship | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Was told by a friend from HS I now emit “chad” energy and I’m a “chad”Haha didn’t know that was a thing, maybe I’ll look it up! Cheers dude thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Was told by a friend from HS I now emit “chad” energy and I’m a “chad”Thanks man! Appreciate it. I’ve definitely been putting in a lot of effort so in a way it’s nice to hear compliments… for the first time in my life from someone other than my parents. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Was told by a friend from HS I now emit “chad” energy and I’m a “chad”Dude this is amazing! Love your input and your outlook on it as a whole. I believe that this sub is slowly disappearing in todays world… or else I just don’t see enough of it. Women don’t approach me; maybe other men get approached and I don’t see it but I feel that by knowing how to approach might set you apart. When I’m out in the world everything feels more real, the attraction, the tension (even if there isn’t any) I’m a younger person whose lost a ton of weight and have been complimented by… | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 03:36 AM |
| 6 | Where can I meet girls with the “girl next door” vibe?I’d suggest moving to a more downtown district. I have absolutely ZERO experience with this but somewhere there is a younger crowd would be ideal. Maybe walk around some complexes and see what kind of people are in the area. Or have lunch in a coffee shop and just people watch | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 12:36 AM |
| 46 | Was told by a friend from HS I now emit “chad” energy and I’m a “chad”Yeah, we were hanging out and there was one girl who wasn’t really my type but I figured I would get some practice in since we are all having a good time. I flirted but she wasn’t really receptive. Instead she always directed the conversation back to him which I thought was very interesting. So I told him he should try to get her number or something and see where it goes since she was always asking his opinion of things. Turns out she later came up to me and said “hey I think your friend is real… | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 03:13 PM |
| 6 | Was told by a friend from HS I now emit “chad” energy and I’m a “chad”Sheesh. It’s a question. I guess your opinions are just opinions | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 02:16 PM |
| 37 | Was told by a friend from HS I now emit “chad” energy and I’m a “chad”Thank god. I’m relieved to hear it because It sounds a lot like the Karen thing… one person called “Karen” fucked it up for everyone. Happy to not partake in this stupidity | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 02:15 PM |
| 3 | How do you go to clubs for night game?I suggest using a car. Probably one with 4 wheels and gas in the tank | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls freak outMost besterest | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls freak outEnglish probability needs to be more gooder two succ a ceeded | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 12:33 AM |
| 1 | First relationship I was so innocent. Where has that innocence gone?I’ve also heard a stat that only 15-20% of single women in an area are on dating apps… what do you think about that? Relatively accurate? “It’ll help fill the hole” you could’ve used any other word there but you chose “hole” thanks for that, it made me chuckle 😂 | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 12:26 AM |
| 7 | Embarrassing situation: I can’t seduce my own girlfriendYeah try the relationship advice sub. I feel that there’s a point where seduction stops and comfort takes place. Not sure where or when but I feel this sub is step 1 of 1000. You’re on step 250 and this sub only covers up to 100 | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 03:52 AM |
| 2 | First relationship I was so innocent. Where has that innocence gone?I think the reason that I was so selfish was because I thought that what was going on in the relationship was not my fault. It wasn’t until one of our final conversations that we got to the root cause the problem which was me having an addiction that I didn’t classify as an addiction. She was the one who actually researched it and showed me all of the resources that I could use to get help. One thing I can tell you is that before I get into another relationship I need to get my porn problem unde… | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | First relationship I was so innocent. Where has that innocence gone?You make a very valid point. If I were to dive immediately back into dating I would constantly be overthinking the relationship which would eventually lead to issues. I guess it’s a good time to focus on myself and take it day by day. You mentioned using dating apps to meet new people. Did you mean broadening my sexual horizons? Or simply just meeting people? The reason I ask is that a lot of people associate dating apps with hooking up. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | First relationship I was so innocent. Where has that innocence gone?With that mindset I’m not surprised. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:45 PM |
| 2 | The fatal flaw with Mark Manson's ModelsCommon sense goes a long way. You read a book about investing and it tells you you must risk your money to have success. So you then go out and put your entire life savings into Tesla and before you know it your money is now worthless because Tesla crashed the next morning and you lost 95% of your money. You then go on to blame the book because it told you to risk your money. Just because a book says something does not mean to take it in the literal sense, you’re still allowed to have your own o… | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | What's something you've learned about women during your seduction/dating journey?If I might ask, what was your theory, I am curious now | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | What's something you've learned about women during your seduction/dating journey?Can you please speak clearer and use better English? I’m confused at the point that you are trying to make. I (a man) was 280 pounds. No money, in college, like 4 friends and I was dating someone who was 125 lbs also didn’t have a lot of friends and was very introverted. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | What's something you've learned about women during your seduction/dating journey?Last time I checked. I have a windmill super power. What makes you say that? | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | First relationship I was so innocent. Where has that innocence gone?Not to be blunt but you didn’t trust her enough to tell her he you felt about her performance in bed. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 07:20 PM |
| 2 | First relationship I was so innocent. Where has that innocence gone?I thank you for your kind words and the fact you referred to me as a man gives me hope that I’m doing things correctly. The guidance you give is eye opening. At the end of the day I appreciate the relationship for what it was and the effect we both had on eachother. We learned a hell of a lot from eachother and no matter how much time goes on I’m sure I’ll remember things she taught me. The time to fix things and take action was a month ago. I can only do better going forward. I think putting ex… | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | First relationship I was so innocent. Where has that innocence gone?Dang dude that’s rough. How are you doing since all that? Have you found someone who you are able to have a more solid relationship with? | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 02:33 PM |
| 3 | First relationship I was so innocent. Where has that innocence gone?I sense some sarcasm. It’s still an open wound and I’m not in a position to date right now so it’s just a lot to take in. My therapy is writing stuff down and getting it out. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Calling out Woujo? | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 02:16 PM |
| 5 | What's something you've learned about women during your seduction/dating journey?If you have someone who is willing to move with you, stand by you, love you unconditionally, even at your worse when you’re 280 lbs… consider everything very carefully before you give them up. I thought I did but they’re someone who I think will stay in my thoughts for ever. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 12:55 PM |
| 1 | How much money do I need to get a gfI was 315lbs and broke. She was maybe 125 lbs and broke. We both had self image issues at the time. Her more than me. I didn’t like how I looked anymore so I made a change. I’m 180 now biceps and veins. Still have a belly but she didn’t have that much ambition at the time and my tastes changed when I got out of college so the relationship dissolved. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How much money do I need to get a gfMoney is irrelevant. I had a gf for 4 years and I was broke. If anyone tells you that you need money to get a girl you’re close minded. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 10:23 AM |
| 1 | [28M] 2.5 Year dry spell as a Bartender in a College/Beach town. Bartender Game advice?Why no day game? | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 08:15 PM |
| 4 | I cold approached a femboy and got publicly humiliated, what did I do wrong?Not all interactions would be like this right? | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | What do you say to a girl?Use all available resources. Filter to top and hot posts all time and read a couple of those. Those should answer a lot of questions | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | What do you say to a girl?There’s already a guide for the basics. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Feel conflicted about approaching girls at the gym. How bad is this, and what should I be doing differently?What’s done is done. You can’t fix it. By fixing you would make it that much worse. Learn from it and move on | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Had crazy chemistry texting over 3 days with a cute tinder date, setup date, paused texting...3 days later unmatched and ghosted...All good guy, I know they aren’t big on situation specific posts. Now if you rewrote this and said exactly what you did to have siccess with this girl and you offer advice then it could be something everyone could learn from. Simply posting like a lost puppy doesn’t offer much advice for the rest of the community to critique on | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 05:50 PM |
| -1 | Had crazy chemistry texting over 3 days with a cute tinder date, setup date, paused texting...3 days later unmatched and ghosted...I’m not a mod but if you read the rules you’d see that this type of post is not allowed. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Had crazy chemistry texting over 3 days with a cute tinder date, setup date, paused texting...3 days later unmatched and ghosted...This is an r/askSeddit question not for this community. Read the rules | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 05:28 PM |
| 0 | Day gaming at grocery store?I don’t think I said we were entitled to a conversation. Just as humans communication is the moral of how we evolved. Granted the “how are you” vs “hey I have a question” is what should be addressed, that goes hand in hand with the “um, ok” walks away vs “I’d really not like to talk right now have a nice day.” Kindness in my book should be first, I’m only hostile or disrespectful to people if they disrespect me first. If they are an ass then he’ll yeah I’m gonna defend myself but just because yo… | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 03:17 PM |
| -1 | Day gaming at grocery store?I’m not saying there’s zero motive. What I’m saying is the motivation backing the initial interaction may be different. You see it as getting hit on. The other person may not be trying to hit on you at all. They may have been trying all day to talk to someone or have someone talk to them because they’ve been cooped up in their house for the last week after their dog died and they were 5 minutes away from taking their own life just to finally get out of their house and take their future into thei… | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 02:07 PM |
| 4 | Day gaming at grocery store?And this is probably why you’re single. You automatically assume that they’re hitting on you. Maybe they had a genuine question, maybe they’re trying to get out of their social comfort zone, maybe they simply just need someone to talk to right now. By you assuming that they’re hitting on you you’re essentially locking yourself out from social interaction. The world right now is so messed up to the point that if anyone talks to anyone it’s labeled as being weird. How do you think that our ancesto… | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Is she interested still?Have you seen her voice clearly illuminated with plenty of light? When she sends you a video are there filters attached. Is “she” using a voice filter to make her voice appear higher and more feminine. Just saying catfishing is SO easy today it’s unreal. Man can use the filter to add hair to him and the voice filter to make him sound like a girl. Try it for yourself and see how believable you can be. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Is she interested still?If she even has an IG. Sounds like you’re pretty confident this “girl” is real. If she is I fact real. Better be safe because if she isn’t you can get in a lot of trouble my guy. Nothing an 18 year old should be getting into. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Is she interested still?Dude there isn’t any girl. You’re being played | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Is she interested still?I’m serious. It’s a well known scam. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Is she interested still?“She’ll” probably accidentally give her phone to “her dad” and then “he’ll” threaten to take you to court and then “he’ll” let you off if you pay him XYZ amount of money | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 11:29 PM |
| 0 | how many dates do you guys personally usually wait until sex?You think that now but lust isn’t love. It won’t get you to the end. Might get you 4-5 years but there’s a saying. Every time you have sex before you’re married you put a Penny in a jar. To get the same number of Pennies in the jar after marriage it’ll take you a lifetime. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 11:26 PM |
| 7 | how many dates do you guys personally usually wait until sex?You’ve been with 80 and still haven’t found someone who you get along with? How? | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Anyone of you keeping track of how many girls you have slept with? If so, how many and how old are you?This gives me hope. Emotional connections are the best. So many take this for granted. Investing time into a person can be very rewarding even if there aren’t plans for long term | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | With the recent ruling on abortion. How does this affect seduction?I’ve had about 7 ish. Guess they just see I’m so perfect and want to trap me in the relationship. pure and utter sarcasm | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 02:11 PM |
| 0 | With the recent ruling on abortion. How does this affect seduction?Not sure how that is relevant | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 01:42 PM |
| 1 | With the recent ruling on abortion. How does this affect seduction?Flip your phone upside down | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 01:40 PM |
| 1 | With the recent ruling on abortion. How does this affect seduction?Every hookup I’ve gone to I’ve wore a condom. Half the girls told me “it’s cool I get the shot/pill.” Im thinking the fact that other dudes probably hear that and dive right in… no thanks I’ll wrap my shit | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 01:22 PM |
| -1 | With the recent ruling on abortion. How does this affect seduction?That’s what I’m thinking tbh but I’ve talked to friends and all their FWBs are pulling the plug. Even some of my friends in relationships are already saying that their SO has decided never to have sex until they reverse this. I’m thinking that’s a bit too much… there are still other forms but now I guess it will teach those is us who use protection to be even more careful | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 01:07 PM |
| 8 | With the recent ruling on abortion. How does this affect seduction?I’m actually not a virgin so happy for you making assumptions. No wonder you’re still single like the rest of us. I merely had a question. No need to be ridiculed | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Wasted 20’s. Don’t want to waste my 30’sGuy asked how to fly a plane but the engine won’t start and you basically just said “yeah to start the lawnmower just pull the handle and let her go chief, you’ll be mowin lawns n shit for days have fun bro” you have no business giving advice lol | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Wasted 20’s. Don’t want to waste my 30’sThose places also have relatively expensive costs of living. Just sayin But this is good, especially if you meet people other than girls. Maybe you meet a group of guys who you enjoy getting along with. They aren’t someone who you can stick your d**k in but you have just expanded your social circle and if you hang out with these guys on a regular basis while you’re still going to bars and such, you’re essentially expanding your pool of potential matches exponentially. Your new friends have frien… | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Playing hard to get/ shit test or low interest?This is an askSeddit not a seduction question | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 04:18 AM |
| 2 | 😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches)Some people care hence the YouTubers being trespassed. Genuinely curious | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 01:40 PM |
| 12 | Cold approached storyDude she was married. Look for the ring next time. Also simply asking for someone’s name and making a quick joke is not a cold approach. It’s a very friendly exchange. You neeed to make her FEEL something. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 11:10 AM |
| 7 | 😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches)How do you not get self conscious just going to the mall to approach people and not shop? I’ve gone to get like one thing, seen tons of women and even talked to one. Afterwards I felt that if I went and talked to more the one girl or other girls I talked to would notice and immediately feel less special and then tell security to ask me to leave. You know how those guys who make the YouTube videos have security come and ask why they’re there and then say “well if you aren’t a student we will need… | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 11:07 AM |
| 2 | When a girl asks “do you drink/do you smoke weed?” how do you respond appropriately?Truthfully… if you’re asking yourself this question how do you think you’re going to answer tough questions like do you want kids? Or when she asks you how hot it is outside are you going to say hmmm how hot should I tell her it is? 50 sounds good for today. Dude just be honest for gods sake. Thinking this way you’re putting her on a pedestal. “Oh if I answer this wrong (btw there’s never a wrong answer) she’s gonna leave and not like me…” good one less person you have to waste your time on. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 11:34 AM |
| 4 | Just a Tinder Experiment that Blew my Mind!Based off your comment and post history no wonder you don’t get matched | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:52 PM |
| 2 | DATING APPS ARE A BUSINESS AT THE END OF THE DAYDude, there’s a whole section on Tinder use your resources. Also just follow rules 1 & 2 and you’ll be fine | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Once you’ve had your first major breakup, it all seems so much easierThat’s messed up. Happy for your girl. You sound like a real catch | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | (25m) Just downloaded tinder and I feel on top of the world. Not for the right reasonsEither that or women got a LOT pickier overnight | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | (25m) Just downloaded tinder and I feel on top of the world. Not for the right reasonsCompany got greedy. At the end of the day the app is there for the company to make money… not get people matches. The more and more beautiful women it keeps on the app the better. The devs know the hot girls won’t settle when they know there are hotter guys out there aka the 10s who work on their profile like a full time job… thus keeping them on the app and sub par guys will continue to see the beautiful women that are still on the app. They’ll then show your sub par profile to the lowest scori… | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:01 PM |
| 19 | I am going to go out on a limb with a question I probably shouldn’t ask for fear of being admonished. But why is it that some girls wear the most scantily clad outfits to the store when it’s not even warm outside?You sound like you’re fun at parties.. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 11:54 AM |
| 1 | (25m) Just downloaded tinder and I feel on top of the world. Not for the right reasonsGood for you. It’s not a competition. Most times people try to add constructive criticism but again judging from your comment history you are merely here to troll. Good day | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | (25m) Just downloaded tinder and I feel on top of the world. Not for the right reasonsThat’s why I instantly deleted it an hour ago. Sticking with real life instead. Less BS | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Using social circle as main way to find dates feels like a fucking prison !It’s just how evolution is going. Gone are The days of staying up till 11 until your parents were asleep to call your crush on the landline. Now are the times of instant communication and instant DMing. Social media is your new cover letter to success. The first things people as are “oh what’s your insta” that’s your vetting process. From my experience unless you find a girl 22+ years old this is going to be the norm. Also it can be kinda fun. Helps you make a bucket list and get out of your com… | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 05:58 PM |
| 7 | is cheating really that common? how are so many other guys able to find women who are willing to cheat with them?Second this. I’m not a woman but OP it sounds like you expect things to be given to you because you simply want them. “I want a new car. Why isn’t the dealership giving me a free car” “why’d that guy get a free car he doesn’t have any money” well he bought a $200 ticket using the last $200 he had to his name and won the expensive car in the raffle. You say these guys have nothing to offer… you ever think what they’re offering is not a physical attribute? You mention these other guys are too ugly… | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 05:50 PM |
| 2 | What is something you've learned throughout your seduction journey?Yeah let’s hear it | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | (25m) Just downloaded tinder and I feel on top of the world. Not for the right reasonsAlso based off your comment history I believe you are convinced there are no women in your life who appreciate you. Maybe try focusing on yourself and being the best version of yourself you can be. Also for the record. Back when I was only getting 2-3 likes I was still fucking 1-2 a month when I was trying. So yes I’m aware | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | (25m) Just downloaded tinder and I feel on top of the world. Not for the right reasonsI can see why it rarely happens to you. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:16 PM |
| 2 | (25m) Just downloaded tinder and I feel on top of the world. Not for the right reasonsI’m used to that, I’ll normally make a new tinder and get 1-3 likes. This time I’ve gotten 17 likes within the first 12 hours. It’s insane. Maybe this was the first time I’ve downloaded it on a Saturday night but it makes me feel a high I haven’t really felt before. The high of 1. Being somrwhat attractive enough for others to like me and 2. The high of being confident in myself. I understand how people can get addicted to this high now. It’s so consuming. I am really motivated now so I’ll proba… | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 11:56 AM |
| 1 | (25m) Just downloaded tinder and I feel on top of the world. Not for the right reasonsI agree. I didn’t realize it until I got that high last night and then this morning. I woke up with 17 likes… the most I’ve ever had within 12 hours. Even after a first install. I think I’m going to delete it and go to the park today and talk to some women | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 11:53 AM |
| 1 | (25m) Just downloaded tinder and I feel on top of the world. Not for the right reasonsIt’s a huge problem and I’ve downloaded it before but this is the first time I’ve been this successful after the first install. It gives me a high but I’m trying to convert that high into motivation to go out and meet women. If I’m having marginal success on tinder then there’s a possibility that IRL I’m 2 points more attractive | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Want to give dating apps a try. Looking for general advice and resources on setting up a profile and what to expectThen if 6 1 is too short whats the measure up then? | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | whats the step by step for getting dates/sex??Sounds like he got “found out” and then downvoted you. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 08:09 PM |
| 2 | I hate to admit it but I’m jealous of my friend who doesn’t seem to struggle at allAlthough the other half of the sub says “oh yeah looks don’t matter” it’s like politics. One side is right and the other side is convinced they’re the second coming of Jesus Christ and have all the answers. Looks are relative. Yes if you haven’t gone to the gym and resemble a bowling ball you might get a strike. Although looks could also be style, grooming, physique. The ways to improve your looks are endless; going to the gym, eating healthier, brushing your teeth every day, reading a book to r… | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 12:36 PM |
| 0 | I hate to admit it but I’m jealous of my friend who doesn’t seem to struggle at allAre you saying you’ve been single for 15 years? | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 12:31 PM |
| 4 | how do I get a different hookup everyday?Have a sex change and become a woman. Then wear so much makeup the men will never know. Just don’t speak because your voice will still be low. Or just get with guys instead | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Seduction on your mental stateI have slept with about 5 since and I have definitely found some that are better in bed than her and others who are worse and who I wondered after the fact how I thought they were attractive. I also didn’t see myself with any of them long term. I was only interested in the fun. Now I’m sure I may find someone who I may wish to spend my life with but I need to be attracted to them first. I believe I was never truly attracted to my first partner I was attracted to the unknown of a relationship. On… | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Seduction on your mental stateExactly! It’s as if my innocent mind (where I didn’t analyze everything women did) is now gone. On another note. Why are there down votes? Do people just not believe this is a possibility when you join this sub. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | This greatly increased my value on hingeWell with that logic wouldn’t it make more sense to just take the more opportunistic approach… aka approaching in real life? I’m sure a HUGE percentage of men are on tinder. One guy gets laid off tinder, tells his friends, Friends download tinder and stop pursuing women in real life because it was just “so easy”. Then they stop pursuing women in real life “assuming” everyone is on tinder. Essentially increasing your success in real life because your number of active competitors has reduced | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | How to lower my standards to get more experienceYeah. I’m here for this comment | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 12:05 PM |
| 1 | This greatly increased my value on hingeOr just approach women IRL and do the apps on the side. I won’t say the apps don’t work but if you aren’t willing to spend the money or put in the effort for pictures you can always go outside. I’m not sure on the percentage but I’m certain a large percentage of women are NOT on a dating app. If someone would like to find the stat that would be nice to know | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 10:46 PM |
| 5 | Nothing hurts more than clicking extremely well with a woman, but lacking dating skills to drive it in a sexual directionI beg to differ. It most certainly does have a lot to do with him. Not 100% hum but atleast 75%. Women have so many options men need to put in effort to pursue the “job opening” many other qualified people are competing for. Most of the time women give up on someone who is interested and use the excuse of never feeling anything. The reason they never felt anything was because the man never gave them something to feel. He never made an emotional escalation but you put that pressure on her eventua… | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Flirting blueprintThis is way too official and comes off pretty strong… sounds like a business transaction. Keep it light. Read up on some of the guides in the top comments about basic attraction and building an emotional connection first before asking for a number. If there is silence and she isn’t asking about you at the time you ask for the number. You have already lost her; getting the number will go nowhere. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Y’all that are married or in a relationship with the guy or girl of your dreams where did you meet them and how old were you?Thank you for the comment. Not sure why people are so against this type of post… | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Y’all that are married or in a relationship with the guy or girl of your dreams where did you meet them and how old were you?I don’t understand what’s so wrong with this? I’m asking how people met. Sue me | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so?Some people don’t understand. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so?You’re totally right! It happens when you least expect it. My parents have a crazy story that you couldn’t replicate even if you tried… it’s awesome!! Although I broke up with a gf a little while ago and she was my first person I had ever dated 4 years ago. Now I’ve had 6 dates in 2 months and none truly compare to her. I’m taking a break and focusing on me for a while. In no way throwing in the towel but I’m forcing myself off the apps. If I want to meet someone I’m telling myself I’ve gotta ge… | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:13 AM |
| 2 | I opened to 8 girls tonight in a clubAlthough I do agree. It is best to start early in the club. You get to build rapport while you’re there chatting. Let’s you warm up without really even trying. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:10 AM |
| 4 | I opened to 8 girls tonight in a clubAnd that’s why most frats have had multiple offenses against them by university students. I feel that it happens way too often where a girl is drunk and the guy clearly takes advantage. That is not seduction. That’s something else. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:08 AM |
| 2 | I opened to 8 girls tonight in a clubI didn’t make a statement about cold approach being efficient or inefficient. I also don’t owe you any information. It’s a shame that you aren’t able to grasp concepts and instead just spew statements claiming there are sources supporting your opinion but turns out they’re from The Onion. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:05 AM |
| 4 | Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so?That warms my heart. :) going through something now where I’m moving back to a small town and stories like this give me hope | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:02 AM |
| 2 | I opened to 8 girls tonight in a clubAs does the ability for someone to consent. Go earlier. You can have more cognitive conversations and reduce the legal ramifications if you take someone whose sober back to your place | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:00 AM |
| 3 | I opened to 8 girls tonight in a clubGot some input to back up that statement? The world is square dont you know? | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so?How did you meet your now gf? | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 02:46 AM |
| 17 | Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so?Personally I don’t think he asked for pointers on what to do. He was merely making a statement | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 02:44 AM |
| 1 | All you need is a social circle of average looking men.Well he deleted it so I guess it worked itself out | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 06:25 PM |
| 4 | Sex feels so unobtainable and I hate itThe girl I dated for 4 years was okay with me gaming. I even got her addicted to GTA and Battlefield. I will say that I do agree with you tho, if the ONLY thing you do is play video games and have no other personality traits other than screaming at people on Xbox then you need to take a break and work on yourself but if you have a life and do it occasionally it is acceptable I’d think. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Sex feels so unobtainable and I hate itWhat’s wrong with video games? If it’s a hobby why not? As long as your passionate about it it’s cool right lol | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 04:13 PM |
| 0 | All you need is a social circle of average looking men.I know m8. I r8 this shit an 8 out of 8 | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 03:53 PM |
| 5 | All you need is a social circle of average looking men.It’s about how you carry yourself. When you think of the group hierarchy are you a leader or just a follower. Do you decide where you’re going? Or do you say “dang I’m craving Mexican” and just give your input to allow someone else to make the decision? Do you take the lead when walking even if you don’t know where you’re going? Or are you the person giving the men out front directions on where to go? If you are seen as one of the crowd, “just another person” in the group then you may not “exist… | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | All you need is a social circle of average looking men.This is the internet. It’s full of opinions. You ask the internet how to cook an egg and everyone thinks their way is the best way; boiled, fried, cooked on a hot rock. At the end of the day someone may really enjoy this advice and this may be a way for them to start. You don’t start driving nascars you typically start in a Prius and learn the rules of the road. Maybe this will help someone learn to make themselves more social and be more confident talking to people. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | It’s foolish to think there is only one Mrs. RightI really see your point now. That is a very practical way to look at things. One of which I haven’t really understood having just gotten out of a LTR and into dating at 25. Because it is true, as life goes on more and more people find their significant other just like how we are trying to do as well. I also have the mindset that every day is a new day and therefore the possibility of meeting people is hypothetically infinite. 3.5 billion women. Let’s say Of that maybe 2% are single… that still l… | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | It’s foolish to think there is only one Mrs. RightSo that begs the question of if you are not at a point in your life where you are ready to settle down and they are wouldn’t you be able to be compatible with someone else later in life and want to make it work with them at that time? | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 11:12 AM |
| 1 | It’s foolish to think there is only one Mrs. RightThat’s what I was thinking. If you have this idea that there is only one person out there for you you run the risk of falling into an endless cycle of dating the person, six months down the road you’re out of the honeymoon phase and you’re bored. You don’t think they are the one anymore…cycle repeats itself. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 01:36 AM |
| 2 | It’s foolish to think there is only one Mrs. RightI’m gonna take this as you being sarcastic. Of course there’s more than one person who we might be compatible with. The issue lies where you get comfortable being uncomfortable and the person who you think you are “compatible” with is just a more bearable version than the last. So where do you draw the line and say this is my forever person. You can’t get any better than this. Versus this person is amazing but I know I could do better. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | It’s foolish to think there is only one Mrs. RightThat’s a very interesting take. So then can you truly beat the odds? Because I know if you play your cards right and meet a lot of beautiful women wouldn’t you potentially have the odds in your favor? Compared to if you were just sitting at home all day not doing anything you would truly need to rely on luck. So then the saying of meeting the right person at the wrong time comes into play. What’s your take on that statement? | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 01:31 AM |
| 2 | How to take things a step furtherRead all the top comments then if you have unanswered questions ask them. I found a ton of answers there | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Dating Apps vs. Real Life EncountersThe worst part is that online there are only a few people who are succeeding. The business and THE business | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | The ol no connectionI was typing all this out but I didn’t know you had deleted the post… not sure if you can still see it. Anyways here’s my two cents… You are right maybe you aren’t expecting points from it but why even mention it in the first place? Why not just say “I offered to drive; we drove over” if you’re nervous with a girl who is as attractive as you say she is, try to work on that. Dates are one way to do that but at the same time you aren’t doing yourself any favors because you are compromising potenti… | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | The ol no connectionThis is the internet man, in all due respect we only know what you tell us in your original post. None of us were there so we can only give so much advice. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | The ol no connectionIf you thinking you need to sell the car is why it went wrong. I’m not able to help you. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | The ol no connectionFirst off. You made it a point to mention that you drive a Porsche like that had anything to do with it. Not just a car. You may feel that because you have nice things you don’t need to try. You NEED to excite her in some way. Flirt with her on the date. “Are all cute girls X at X” that clearly says I am here and I am confident, I want to take you home and fuck you. Just because you’re golfing doesn’t mean you have to keep it strictly about golfing. If anything it might be easier to escalate. Af… | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Dating Apps vs. Real Life EncountersAlso that ratio you’re seeing is merely a fraction of the women on the app. There may be 500 unattractive women and 300 attractive women. The app will place the top 100 into the standouts category and only allow them to match with similar scoring males or if you pay money. It will also show you the 500 unattractive ones and then once you use your 8 likes for the day it will then begin to show you the other 200 that are “attainable” since they aren’t in the standouts. Your likes replenish and the… | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | I....cannot do it....feel like cryingThis is fear of the unknown. Subconsciously telling yourself this is foreign and not normal; the interaction is not natural therefore the person will judge me for it; which circles back to fearing rejection. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Dating Apps vs. Real Life EncountersLove the insight! I appreciate it! Yeah I get that. It’s always better when negative people leave. I am very positive and cannot stand negativity. I’ve also noticed that when I do go to the bar occasionally with a friend, I am much more motivated. Most of my friends are shy and I am an extroverted introvert so when I’m with people I become extremely extroverted, to the point where I will take risks I never thought I would if I was by myself. I’m not sure if that’s a good or bad thing but it typi… | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Dating Apps vs. Real Life EncountersWere you just like “hold my bear while I go swoon this other guy” lol | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Dating Apps vs. Real Life EncountersEnjoyed reading this! Gave me motivation I’ve been looking for! One question tho, were you by yourself at the bar or were you there with friends? I struggle with going to the bar along because I’d rather not drink alone and the bars where I live are typically filled with older men and no women so I stopped going…Small town of about (14,000) | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 01:17 AM |
| 1 | I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looksLike everything that happens in life it’ll come and go I’m sure. The way social media goes who knows. A trend where women start approaching guys might begin to happen. Might take the country by storm lol | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 02:41 PM |
| 1 | I think I’m attractive and successful. Society may think otherwise.And that’s where approaching come into play ;) right. Atleast that’s my mindset now | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 02:23 PM |
| 1 | I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looksI’ve slept with one older woman from a cold approach and I really didn’t enjoy it. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | I think I’m attractive and successful. Society may think otherwise.Idk I haven’t uploaded pictures but all my guy friends say I’m lookin good and kinda hype me up (obviously being good friends) probably because they’ve seen me from where I was and maybe that’s them being bias. Although I have held eye contact with women and have had more smile at me lately. I don’t know if this is maybe me just being more observant but I feel that my interactions that I have had with women have had more tension than any of my interactions 3-6 years ago. I link this observation … | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | I think I’m attractive and successful. Society may think otherwise.I do actually. Not every single day. But I’ve had great conversations and I actually had my first date from approaching someone last week and it was a major confidence boost! Hella proud of myself! | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | I think I’m attractive and successful. Society may think otherwise.I don’t see how this has anything to do with whether or not I’m attractive. Mental health and mindset in the moment is not a level of attractiveness. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 02:00 PM |
| 2 | I think I’m attractive and successful. Society may think otherwise.That’s the other thing. I actually WANT to take dance classes. I’ve never been able to dance and I’ve always just wanted to be able to hop on the dance floor and tear it up. I’ve saved friendsgiving because the host didn’t know how to cook and I’d want to be the first to start the dancing at a wedding where no one is dancing | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 01:16 AM |
| 1 | I think I’m attractive and successful. Society may think otherwise.I haven’t had a lot of interactions with women since I’ve become who I am now. (Weight loss/style changes) I’ve had maybe 50 or so interactions. Overall, not a big pool of experiences. I also haven’t had much in terms of social circle interaction with women as of late because my job had me on the road with other guys going to different cities. My new job is actually going to allow me to make/have a friend group since I’ll be in a specific city not bouncing around like a pin ball. I feel that whe… | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 01:08 AM |
| 1 | I think I’m attractive and successful. Society may think otherwise.This comment is what I’ve been looking for. That’s putting it truly into perspective. Thank you for taking the time to respond! | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | I think I’m attractive and successful. Society may think otherwise.I can see that view point. It’s all starting to make sense now | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | I think I’m attractive and successful. Society may think otherwise.I guess you do make a good point. Although I never used to bash myself. I always used to and still do to an extent be very positive and not care what anyone said. Granted I never pursued women at the time because I wasn’t interested. I had friends instead) now that I’m trying to date I’m second guessing things. The other stuff about cooking, perseverance, and sociability. I’m happy with because it’s easy for me to do and I enjoy it for me. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | I think I’m attractive and successful. Society may think otherwise.Thank you man I guess in a way I was settling. Although genetics is something that is very difficult to deal with. Might as well go to the gym and look good if my face is ugly. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | I think I’m attractive and successful. Society may think otherwise.I appreciate the analogy! The comment at the end was a tad bit unnecessary. Not sure why this was approval seeking. I’m simply trying to motivate people to be better in terms of mental health. A lot of society today picks on successful people. And even tho they’re successful they can have bad mental health issues. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looksSo what you’re insinuating is that we shouldn’t leave relationships even if we aren’t happy? Because that mindset promotes settling. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looksIdk I go to the gym but never work out my lower body. I’m just starting to | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looksBelieve it or not yes. You seem surprised | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 01:52 PM |
| 1 | I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looksI don’t necessarily think they’re hot but I probably wouldn’t sleep with them. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 01:52 PM |
| 1 | I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looksNo, just random women. Most times they’re when I’m traveling. Airport or a grocery store when I say pardon me to squeeze by. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 01:50 PM |
| 1 | I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looksYeah dude, all these compliments I get are when I deliver the parcel to the old folks home down the street. Grannies can look but can’t touch lol | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 01:49 PM |
| 2 | How to approach a woman who flashes?Ohhh my bad. I sometimes forget that common sense is rare in this age. You are right tho, best to tell him not to be dumb just in case 😂 | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 02:30 AM |
| 4 | How to approach a woman who flashes?Going up and talking to someone wouldn’t be criminal. What do you take OP for? | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 02:15 AM |
| 1 | I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looksI try to be confident and I’ve turned into a bit of a hoe where I’ve slept with 5 women of different sizes and shapes just within the past 4 months and I feel a bit bad like I’m not doing myself justice. I’m learning a ton about my sexuality, likes, dislikes and such but sometimes I’d love to just be in a relationship with a beautiful woman and other days I’d love to just focus on me, myself, and I and do what I truly want to do when I want to do it. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 11:38 PM |
| 3 | I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looksI guess I never really considered that. Most of us younger guys are living in the moment. Not really focusing on 20 years down the road but when you look at the big picture I think it helps :) thank you again I feel more confident with my current situation (being single at 25 fresh out of a 4 year relationship) | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 11:10 PM |
| 3 | I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looksWhat do you mean? | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looks72 inches | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 10:34 PM |
| 2 | I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looksYes lol I’ve been told more often than I can count that I have nice calves 😂 | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 09:56 PM |
| 7 | I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looksIt’s honestly surprising. I’ve always heard the saying men are more attractive the older they get unless you get bad genetics and go bald. Even then tho some girls I assume may see this as attractive if the guy is able to pull it off and make it look good. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 07:49 PM |
| 9 | I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looksVery interesting take on this topic. It’s nice to hear some real world experience. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 07:46 PM |
| 36 | I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looksLiterally all of Reddit point A is correct but point B is also correct. Damed if you do damed if you don’t 😅 | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Being told the way to get the hot girls is to get jackedIt wasn’t really a external success. More of an internal success that I approached a beautiful woman and just didn’t know how to react 😅 | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Being told the way to get the hot girls is to get jackedGood to know! Thanks chief :) | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Being told the way to get the hot girls is to get jackedI dated a girl who was relatively fit for 4 years but there were other things keeping us from continuing. I was 300 lbs at the time all fat. So I guess she was staying for the personality. Now I’m 180 and working on myself. It’s a bit interesting when I think back to that how this pretty girl could love someone when they were 300+ pounds and she was over there lookin like a twig. I guess maybe I should give myself more credit where it’s due… thanks for the comment bro | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Being told the way to get the hot girls is to get jackedThis is true, I’ve never met a traditional model but the one IG model I met at an airport was a solid 9.5/10. Super nice and sweet. She seemed really down to earth actually, a bit ditsy. Asked for her Instagram and actually paused when I saw how many followers she had. Later found out she also has an OF. I was actually speechless in the interaction. Broke eye contact and everything (rookie mistakes I know) A day later she posted a meme about how when people see her IG for the first time they jus… | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Being told the way to get the hot girls is to get jackedI guess I never thought of it that way. In school those girls that are now “hot” were the girls in high school that were kinda cringe. In terms of appearance. They’ve glowed up. So essentially what you’re saying is that all the “hot” ones are exhausted from having so much sex whenever they want they’d rather just get a nice guy who they can settle down with? | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Being told the way to get the hot girls is to get jackedI like your viewpoint on that, it makes sense and in terms of wanting to get with models, it’s like just once, smash and pass. Then I’ll be good. Just to see it isn’t everything it’s cracked up to be. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Being told the way to get the hot girls is to get jackedYou make some good points! Thank you for the comment. As for IG game. Do you just post nice pictures like you would on tinder but just make sure they’re all clearly 11/10 in terms of effort | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | How do I bring up having an open relationship to my gf?Didn’t find this out until after I broke things off. It’s a hard thing to face. If you don’t follow rules 1 and 2 and haven’t EVER approached someone it’s a tough pill to swallow. You can only go up from here tho :) | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Moving a date up because you have availability in your schedule yes or no?Good point. Haven’t talked to her in 3 days tho so I might send her something funny today or just a glimpse into my life. Instead of just being radio silence until the date on Friday. What do you think? | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:02 PM |
| 2 | What’s your view on being FWB with your ex? Detrimental or is it possible? Does it take away from healing?Haha I mean you can probably live with your folks, I plan to. But I also plan to surround myself with people who share similar interests. Granted I still know people from my high school, I do not plan to reconnect with them because I feel that they will keep me from progressing in life. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 02:32 AM |
| 2 | What’s your view on being FWB with your ex? Detrimental or is it possible? Does it take away from healing?“Balanced lives are for bitches” I knew I’d like that video as soon as I heard that line because he’s right. Society is full of morons. I look at people from my hometown and they’re still living in the same crappy town working the same 9-5 job, going to the same bar with the same 10 people every Friday and Saturday. I left. I got out before I got sucked into that. I pursued college; working in my field now with contacts who are 60+ years old and retired. They did it the right way, they made the … | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 01:50 AM |
| 1 | What’s your view on being FWB with your ex? Detrimental or is it possible? Does it take away from healing?What ended the friends with benefits situation if you don’t mind me asking? Did you two find other people or just grow apart? | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | What’s your view on being FWB with your ex? Detrimental or is it possible? Does it take away from healing?Yeah, I can see how jealousy could start very easily. She has already talked about how she’s getting hit on at work and other things like that. She’s also the person who has never been hit on ever in her life, so it is very new to her. The first time she said it I didn’t really know how to take it but now that I’ve heard her say it I have a better understanding of how to process that information | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | What’s your view on being FWB with your ex? Detrimental or is it possible? Does it take away from healing?I wanted something different. We met in college and now that I am pursuing my career, I’m discovering that I want someone different. She might never be that person that I need in my life. She could also very well be that person. I found myself wanting to cheat towards the end of our relationship. I could not for the life of me find out why and I didn’t want to disrespect her any more than I already had so I decided to end things and focus on me more. I since cut back substantially on watching po… | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 09:25 PM |
| 2 | What’s your view on being FWB with your ex? Detrimental or is it possible? Does it take away from healing?You make a good point, I am still pursuing my fitness goals as well as wanting to further my skills in terms of cooking, style, communication. I still flirt with people regularly when I can and I’m trying to get better at it. I am not using her as an excuse to not pursue other women. I’m on dating apps, I’m putting myself out there, and I’m trying to Live my life to the fullest and still get outside my comfort zone. Granted this is a little bit challenging especially when I have a date lined up,… | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Having a female best friend is undoubtedly one of the reasons I have success with other girls.Question: so do you guys ever go out to clubs together? I’m currently FWB with my ex and we’re in the process of checking off boxes of each other’s sexual wants/fantasies/kinks/basically exploring the realm of sex without having to worry about the other person judging them in a relationship environment… Not sure if this is healthy but I don’t see anything wrong with it as long as neither of us get feelings. Which we have communicated “if either party gets feelings at ANY point. We stop” | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Girl brought up boyfriend about 15 seconds after I brought inferred she went out a lot and partied.Thank you for your insight. I was getting those vibes too. The fact that she decided to even put that in there kinda makes me think she might actually be open to meeting other people. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | I'm good looking, funny, respectful, have a good job, have hobbies, talk to plenty of women. then why can't I even hook up with one woman?Our brains take in 400 billion “units” of information every second. Our brain can make sense of about 2,000 of them per second. Our conscious mind can focus on 2-3 of them at a time. No one can multi task there’s a small percentage of the population that actually can. You need to make sure that you are one of those 2-3 things the woman is consciously focusing on. You yourself have to believe you are enough. Don’t be looking for validation because that is just what it is… validation, not true con… | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Went out and while walking into the club tried to start a conversation but was immediately dismissed and ignoredYou make a very good point, I try to keep it on the up and up most times but sometimes it’s hard when you’re trying to be friendly and they blow you off. But it could’ve been anything! Thank you for your viewpoint :) | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Went out and while walking into the club tried to start a conversation but was immediately dismissed and ignoredThanks dude! I’ll ask myself these questions and it was rather eye opening. I wonder why people are downvoting it. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Went out and while walking into the club tried to start a conversation but was immediately dismissed and ignoredI can understand the frustration for sure. It probably gets old having to constantly repeat yourself. As long as I didn’t piss anyone off or make anyone feel uncomfortable I consider it a good experience. We’re all stuck on this tiny planet together, might as well have some fun along the way. Thank you for your input :) | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Went out and while walking into the club tried to start a conversation but was immediately dismissed and ignoredSomething I noticed in this conversation between the two of you is that she never harped on looks but more personality. I’d say you made it about looks. I think you may believe you need to be attractive to be good with women. I will agree that someone who takes care of themselves will have an easier time getting people (not just women) to like them, and if you display yourself in a good way; style, grooming, doing the best you can with what you’ve got, etc you will find people who enjoy your com… | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Went out and while walking into the club tried to start a conversation but was immediately dismissed and ignoredI’ll agree with this statement because there is a right and wrong time for everything. Just like how when the server comes to your table for the first time you don’t lead with “I’ll have the fish” there has to be a sense of structure. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Went out and while walking into the club tried to start a conversation but was immediately dismissed and ignoredI’d say you’re a pretty good source. It’s like if you’re in a rush, having a homeless man or anyone trying to sell you something you aren’t interested you kinda just push past them. Sometimes it’s weird how brains work you don’t realize you do things until someone else points it out. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Went out and while walking into the club tried to start a conversation but was immediately dismissed and ignoredI’m 24 but I’ve been told I have a baby face so I’m doubtful they thought I was older but maybe that could’ve been it. They weren’t necessarily in the middle of laughing, just had been laughing like 2 seconds earlier and they did that thing where they’re done laughing and you look down and move your hair out of the way. So I thought it might’ve been a good time to open. That’s what I figure probably was the case. Atleast that’s what I’m telling myself lol | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Went out and while walking into the club tried to start a conversation but was immediately dismissed and ignoredYeah I got a full serving of it 😳 | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Went out and while walking into the club tried to start a conversation but was immediately dismissed and ignoredAppreciate the insight, I could’ve led with something more along the lines of “didn’t know the Easter bunny was real how haven’t I met her yet” even that sounds different in my head since I’m not used to thinking that way. Like you said tho, practice helps! Thanks! | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Went out and while walking into the club tried to start a conversation but was immediately dismissed and ignoredI guess if it was a group of grandmas I feel like they might not have had their hearing aids in. I wasn’t trying to sleep with anyone that night but more so just talk to people and build conversation confidence. I can see how the compliment starting out came on VERY strong, might’ve wanted to wait until they were in line like you said. Live and learn 3.7 billion more to go | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | The importance of eye contact can make or break an interaction (Experience from the receiving end)Also, I believe there is a beginners guide somewhere | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | The importance of eye contact can make or break an interaction (Experience from the receiving end)literally every thing talked about in this sub he checked every box If you read the posts and filter them you should find what you’re looking for | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | how the hell can i finally get a girlfriend?Get help if you can. You gotta love yourself before someone else would want to spend time with you. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 02:57 AM |
| 1 | How would you with rejection from a promiscuous woman who slept with/sleeps around with many men but not you?Don’t spend time preparing for the worst. Wait for the issue to arise, try to solve it yourself then look for guidance. Like anything in life, advice can only get you so far. If you are always stressing about the unknown and going off of what others say you will never learn to think for yourself which is a quality most people in todays society lack. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 02:10 AM |
| 3 | The importance of eye contact can make or break an interaction (Experience from the receiving end)Definitely, unreal experience 🤣 | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Seduction vs Manipulation vs Being flirty and respectful.Thank you so much for taking the time to comment on this post. I have taken your advice and insight and applied it to my life and reflection. You make a lot of good points and I took a bit of a break over the past week and just focused on me and didn’t try to game for a while. I’m ready to get back into it after taking a mental break :) | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Seduction vs Manipulation vs Being flirty and respectful.Thank you! I can relate a lot to your response! You made it sound very simple and I know what you mean, thank you for your insight :) | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 11:34 AM |
| 1 | First rejection. Never went on date with this girl. Had something tentative. Says she met someone she clicks well with.never forget this your manhood is not based on how many women you can attract, it’s based on your character. I said this in a post not even 2 weeks ago. Thank you for reiterating this so I could hear it again. I re read my post from before and it’s crazy how I didn’t even take my own advice. Maybe I should give dating a break and focus on me for a bit. I plan to take a break from dating apps for 4 months while I start in the next path of my career but in that process I still plan to constantly w… | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 12:46 AM |
| 1 | First rejection. Never went on date with this girl. Had something tentative. Says she met someone she clicks well with.never forget this your manhood is not based on how many women you can attract, it’s based on your character. I said this in a post not even 2 weeks ago. Thank you for reiterating this so I could hear it again. I re read my post from before and it’s crazy how I didn’t even take my own advice. Maybe I should give dating a break and focus on me for a bit. I plan to take a break from dating apps for 4 months while I start in the next path of my career but in that process I still plan to constantly w… | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 12:45 AM |
| 2 | First rejection. Never went on date with this girl. Had something tentative. Says she met someone she clicks well with.I like that, I just feel since I made this one too personal I screwed myself. I’m okay with rejection in person because it’s instant and I know there is no coming back from it. Summer is around the corner and that means warm weather and more of the 3.4 billion will be out and about just wanting to have fun. Blue skies ahead | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | First rejection. Never went on date with this girl. Had something tentative. Says she met someone she clicks well with.She’s got enough confidence to post a bikini pic and her eating a hamburger so yeah a 9 in my book lol Thank you for being real and honest while also being motivational. You have qualities most people don’t. It’s very easy for someone to say “move on, grow up.” But thank you for taking the time to come to my level I’m at, knee deep in shit and trying to get out of it. I made this too personal and thought it was going well. Turns out I don’t know if there even is another guy. Maybe she just got o… | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | First rejection. Never went on date with this girl. Had something tentative. Says she met someone she clicks well with.Thank you, I’m good now, just the sudden bandaid being ripped off my asshole was a bit of a shock | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 06:56 PM |
| 2 | First rejection. Never went on date with this girl. Had something tentative. Says she met someone she clicks well with.Thank you! It’s difficult to do cold approach because it’s very cold here and there are not a lot of people out and about. I’m also constantly moving around for work so the apps, although not great, do work for now. This summer I really want to get back into approaching people in cities when it’s warmer out. I’m not a fan of the bars I don’t think | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | First rejection. Never went on date with this girl. Had something tentative. Says she met someone she clicks well with.And I met her on a dating app. She was a solid 9 so I felt as tho I was competing but again I liked her way back in February and she messaged me on Tuesday. And by today she was saying she was taken. Hot girls go fast on dating apps I guess | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 06:47 PM |
| 1 | First rejection. Never went on date with this girl. Had something tentative. Says she met someone she clicks well with.I decided to respond and said something witty, probably put too much effort into it but she reacted to it; as she had to other funny things I said, so maybe I made a lasting impression. Not counting on it, however, I made it known that I was looking forward to it but threw some humor into it because I’m not about to make someone feel like an ass. I don’t think I did anything inherently wrong with my banter. I just believe that she had a full date schedule and met someone last night (as she said)… | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Is this something you can give up at any moment… like when you find your soulmate.Thank you for making me aware of that, I didn’t realize that I completely contradicted myself there. I do like your advice. I’m not lying about my true self, I just word it in a way that it comes off as unique. It is a little difficult now to be witty and charming, but it’s something that I enjoy doing when I’m in the moment. I think some days I look at my four year relationship and I see that as a “safe space”. Because we had been dating so long I was so comfortable being myself. Also I was a c… | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Did I sound DTF?You’re saying they “seem really cool before you’ve even talked to them.” What that equates to is “you’re hot I want to have sex with you” | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | After hooking up, proper etiquette for continuing and forming a FWB relationship.You make a good point… a response, although weak is a response at the end of the day. I’m not gonna be in this city again come Wednesday so I was direct and told her we should grab drinks tomorrow and pick up where we left off last week. In the moment I was overthinking it but after I sent it I was almost relieved lol thank you for being blunt. Everyone needs that every now and again :) | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Asked manager at McDonald’s for her number butchered the delivery but still did it.Yeah attention is the first thing you need to really have a chance at potential attraction… good to look for next time. Also very true, it can be done just finding the right opportunity and not coming off as too direct and upfront. I’m just still proud of myself for taking the rejection as well as I did. Looking back I butchered the actual line but took the rejection in stride. Maybe because I was shocked it wasn’t as bad as I was thinking. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Asked manager at McDonald’s for her number butchered the delivery but still did it.Yeah I didn’t want to stop and try to talk to her especially if she had fires to go put out. I felt like being direct was the best idea in the moment instead of beating around the bush. Was the napkin really that bad of an idea? I didn’t end up giving it to her because she was quick to say she had a BF. If I would’ve just said “you should text me” and handed her the napkin would that have been any better? Or is that cheesy method old and outdated? I’m sure in the right context if it was slower a… | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | How many dates before throwing in the towelI just posted an edit, sorry I meant to answer your question originally but got sidetracked | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 09:22 PM |
| 3 | How many dates before throwing in the towelJust throwing this out there but if she said “yes” to strip uno and then when you didn’t have the card game to back up your intentions that’s bad planning on your part. Depending on her level of comfort and investment she may have committed in her mind that she wasn’t going to be naked that night. So after you watched the movie and she didn’t respond well to you escalating I would’ve left it. If you miss that opportunity it is extremely difficult, not to mention awkward to try and bounce back fr… | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: not gauging your level of attractiveness off of how many women you’re currently talking to but instead your success in your own lifeI see where you’re coming from. I guess I had some realizations throughout the post and may have changed my mindset slightly. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: not gauging your level of attractiveness off of how many women you’re currently talking to but instead your success in your own lifeI appreciate the kind words! You’re right, I’d honestly rather have attractive friends because you’re part of a friend group with these people and attractive people typically attract similarly attractive people. I shouldn’t be so hard on my self and I’m working to be better with that, it happens too often and I want to change it. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: not gauging your level of attractiveness off of how many women you’re currently talking to but instead your success in your own lifeI like the way you think! Grow a garden and the butterflies will come! I’ll maybe try pursuing in person interactions! I love talking to people IRL I just need to get over some anxiety when it comes to women | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: not gauging your level of attractiveness off of how many women you’re currently talking to but instead your success in your own lifeI’ve always wondered what it was actually called. Because I think about this all the time. It’s like the success you DID have is completely overlooked by the success you DIDNT have. Now that I know what it’s called I’m going to read up on it and see what all I can find out. Understanding your weaknesses is the key to gaining success | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: not gauging your level of attractiveness off of how many women you’re currently talking to but instead your success in your own lifeThank you for that, you are spot on with that and everyone who I’ve met has said similar things. I’m a pilot so my life isn’t your traditional 9-5 work week. I currently work 3 months on one off so I’m away from my home for months at a time. In about a 3 months I go off to work for the airlines, their schedule is even worse in a way… you may work Sunday - Wednesday then Friday - Monday. I didn’t get in this line of work for the money and I don’t have the stereotypical cocky pilot personality tha… | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: not gauging your level of attractiveness off of how many women you’re currently talking to but instead your success in your own lifeI like your take on the subject my guy, thank you for the feedback! | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: not gauging your level of attractiveness off of how many women you’re currently talking to but instead your success in your own lifeI will probably continually date, the only way to get better at some thing is to experience it. There have been many gorgeous women that I have matched with but I have either not appealed to them in someway because I’m boring, don’t know what to say, or a more attractive person came along. I will probably never know why. People don’t just send reviews back and say “this is why I didn’t message you” I’m 24 right now and didn’t get into dating until my senior year of college, and after about datin… | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: not gauging your level of attractiveness off of how many women you’re currently talking to but instead your success in your own lifeYou make a good point. Although for me right now I travel a lot for work. I was in Fort Lauderdale four months ago, I was in St. Louis two months ago, I was in Houston Texas one month ago. So I travel around quite a bit. Now I’ve been in a very small city for the past three weeks and I don’t have a lot of opportunity to meet people since it is very cold where I am. OLD is the best option aside from bars that have 20 people in them and clubs that only open on Friday and Saturday. With no friends … | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: not gauging your level of attractiveness off of how many women you’re currently talking to but instead your success in your own lifeI am also a minimalist, I’m making about 40,000 a year right now and I’m getting by just fine. Although for me I’m on the road a lot, I’m not home much so most would say this is the best life you could have; nothing holding you down, new cities every other day. It’s great but if you don’t have anyone there ready to hang out with you online dating is your only option. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 09:52 PM |
| 8 | Unpopular opinion: not gauging your level of attractiveness off of how many women you’re currently talking to but instead your success in your own lifeI go through it every now and then and I’ve been told by many people that they think I’m cute and people have even showed my pictures to their friends and they’ve said I’m cute. I’ve had girls make eye contact with me in bars when they’re with guys and I’ve always thought it was because they thought I was weird looking or like “god that guy is ugly” (I was always the fat kid in school but I’ve since gone to the gym, lost 125 pounds and still have a bit of a belly) but now I feel like I should st… | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Men’s advice. Don’t get hung up on not being hung. A big d*ck isn’t required to be good in bedThanks dude! | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 03:27 PM |
| 0 | Men’s advice. Don’t get hung up on not being hung. A big d*ck isn’t required to be good in bedIf you’re not as gifted and she’s on her period and things flow to intercourse before you’re able to have your time pleasing her how else can you please her. She’s very dominant and wouldn’t let me tease her/play with her. I love eating out but she wouldn’t let me do that. Asking for a friend lol | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Straight Coffee Cold ApproachLike I took out the trash today and the trash man came to pick it up. That’s about it | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 02:24 AM |
| 5 | Straight Coffee Cold ApproachWhat are you looking for in this post? | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | ConfusedJust facetime her. A week ago a girl gave me her number from tinder after talking for an hour back and forth and FaceTimed me 2 hours later. She came over that night and we had sex. Never know what can happen | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Had a girl come over. She was very interested, everything seemed like it was going well.“Meh” is right 🤣 thanks for the chat/advice my guy. Cheers | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Had a girl come over. She was very interested, everything seemed like it was going well.I see what you did there. You’re very right in saying it’s situational to the point that there is no “right” thing to say. I will say that we each had a single drink that night and since we hadn’t eaten anything it was affecting both of us a little more than we expected but when you mentioned your first situation I remembered that I think I did say something along the lines of “you can text them if you want I don’t care, you don’t owe me anything” took a sip of my drink and turned back to watch … | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Had a girl come over. She was very interested, everything seemed like it was going well.Now that you mention that, every time she brought up another guy she was fishing for either a compliment or for me to discredit them, “wow guys really do that” I played dumb most of the time and sometimes She’d show me conversations from them and they’re restless like 5-10 messages unanswered. “Hey” “hey baby I love you” “hey sexy, what’re you doing tonight” like Atleast I’m not these guys I never want to get to that level. The more she brought it up the more I felt like she was seeking a compli… | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Had a girl come over. She was very interested, everything seemed like it was going well.You make a good point there I wasn’t going to apologize because I was proud of my joke 😂 there was one point at which her phone went off like 4 times and that was when she made the reference about the guys talking to her. Mine then went off about an hour later and said “I guess you’re popular too” I said it was my mom because it was, and she was all like “I don’t care you don’t owe any explanation to me.” I found that weird when she felt the need to tell me about the guys messaging her and how s… | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 04:34 PM |
| 3 | After trying this stuff for 4 months I concluded that nothing works unless the woman is already attracted to you from the start and everything here is basically bullshitI will say this. Might be an unpopular opinion but If you can approach beautiful women, that is amazing! Maybe try befriending them and then hang out with them and try to get with their friends. If you can approach people just fine, make friends and then try to sleep with their friends. 🤷♂️ it works for some but there’s also a caveat, you may those friendships with the beautiful women by trying to sleep with their friends. We’re all stuck on this tiny planet together and at the end of the day w… | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | After trying this stuff for 4 months I concluded that nothing works unless the woman is already attracted to you from the start and everything here is basically bullshitI can tell from your response that this is the issue. You are letting them take control of the situation by saying that. You need to find a way to bring the conversation away from them shit testing you and trying to get rid of you to being able to own it and scream confidence without being cocky. Also, your response to me wanting to help you does not seem like you are interested in diving further into working on yourself and this skill so in all due respect this will be my last post on this thre… | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 10:05 PM |
| 2 | After trying this stuff for 4 months I concluded that nothing works unless the woman is already attracted to you from the start and everything here is basically bullshitI can approach a group of very attractive women at a bar next to the dance floor with only mild anxiety, sometimes they even comment on how ballsy I was I feel like this is a shit test that you may consistently be failing. Not sure what others think. What do you say in response to this because being ballsy is very closely related with being cocky (which you don’t want to be) instead of confident and you need to be able to strut that line like a ballerina. It doesn’t go anywhere because you may b… | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 09:35 PM |
| 2 | After trying this stuff for 4 months I concluded that nothing works unless the woman is already attracted to you from the start and everything here is basically bullshitWhat exactly are you doing? How are you positioned when talking to them, are you only approaching 10s or everyone? What do you say when you are talking to them? You said you can make them laugh when you crack jokes… where in the conversation do you make the joke? At the beginning, middle, a last ditch effort at the end after you lose your confidence because you’re worried they’re no longer interested. There is a lot of information missing here for people to give good feedback. It’s similar to sa… | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 09:09 PM |
| 4 | Casual conversation led to an unexpected outcome.A steak-medium rare. No clue what she ordered 😂 it was one bags worth | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Casual conversation led to an unexpected outcome.I was even more shocked when she gave me her number… I picked up a chick using google freaking translate 🤣 I’m also not a stunner. Been called a 7 before but definitely not the top 1%. I appreciate your kind words. I think you hit it right on the head. People want INSTANT results and don’t want to put in time or effort which to the guys that can go out and have mastered that, awesome! There are many ways to skin a cat, you don’t have to do what the successful guys do. Be human and other humans w… | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 12:41 AM |
| 2 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulShe definitely was their “leader” she was dressed the sluttiest and showed interest in me as soon as I came up to her (ex. Being in my bubble, leaning into me, Grinding on me, good with eye contact.) as soon as I shifted tho she immediately found another guy and I figured aight good she has a man now lol you know the rest. Just never thought about it that way. Maybe she did maybe she didn’t. Either way if she did that’s shallow. Like maybe I was shallow for shifting but the other girl and i vibe… | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 03:18 AM |
| 1 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulThe friend introduced me to the other girl and she even had her own guy all up on her and feeling her up n stuff after I shifted over. She was preoccupied so that’s why I stuck with the other friend. You make a good point tho. She may have been the one who reported it, I ended up texting the girl I shifted to and she was oblivious to what was happening, so she definitely wasn’t in on it if the friend did report. Either way live and learn. Thanks for your insight man | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 02:39 AM |
| 1 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulI thought I was grasping the concept in my other responses. But I guess I’m still missing something. In my day to day I love talking to and meeting new people. Im friendly and if I’m in an Uber, at the store, wherever I’ll strike up conversations. At work I’ll talk to people too. Walking up to random people in a night life environment clearly isn’t my strong suit and I was just doing what I knew with the information I had. I also know that a lot of my interactions went over relatively well but i… | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulI wasn’t trying to sleep with everyone there although most people I approached were that of the more attractive crowd. 7-9. (In my opinion, everyone is different) but if they seemed interested then I of course shot my shot. I set out that night to make new friends and talk to people. If someone was interested that’d be a bonus. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 07:08 PM |
| 2 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulMaybe I should give it another go and see how it goes. Gotta try everything atleast once right? | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 06:35 PM |
| 2 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulDid you have fun at that bar atleast? That’s what matters. See that’s kinda like me, I was just socializing and then if they seemed interested and SHOWED it then alright let’s tango and it worked out well I guess. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulThe one day I went to campus I definitely didn’t feel like what I was doing was okay. Although I never knew that was a thing. Specifically “sarging”. What makes college campuses so great if you don’t mind? Just the endless streams of beautiful girls? 😂 and people willing to have conversations? That’s probably my biggest takeaway from when I did my two approaches. People were very receptive of being talked to | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 06:25 PM |
| 3 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulIn an environment designed to be social. The bouncer even said this is why he stays at home with his old lady and doesn’t go out. He said society has changed so much and if you even look at a woman wrong it’s considered sexual harassment. He said I could go back in just to be aware of what I was doing. Honestly about 4 of the girls I met were from talking to a different security guy and just shooting the shit with him for most of the night he was cool and didn’t have a problem with me. Girls wou… | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 06:19 PM |
| 2 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulOh I get that, I know only you can judge the interaction but if you were able to laugh it off the second time there’s nothing to say you couldn’t laugh it off a third time. One thing I’ve learned that by making it awkward it becomes awkward. Not sure how to avoid that. I have only gone out once to try day game and it was a trial run. It’s winter here so it makes it a little more difficult. However I’ve approached more people (in lines at stores, at the park (made eye contact, she smiled, she pas… | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 06:15 PM |
| -1 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulIt’s a social environment and I was going there to be social. Yeah I enjoy talking to people and learning their story. If they show interest that’s awesome. I wasn’t trying to manipulate people into being attracted to me. The girl I danced with was definitely interested in me, asking more questions and body language was different. She was also relatively sober as I found out later through texting. It would make sense that if she was more coherent she wouldn’t be thinking a conversation was uncom… | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 06:09 PM |
| 2 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulWell that was the girl I got along with. And someone pointed out it probably wasn’t them who reported me since she was holding my hand through most of it. It was probably someone from earlier in the night who didn’t like talking to me. You can’t please them all but I had a lot of experiences last night I can learn from. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 05:33 PM |
| 2 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulRight just like how if I was running into the same people 3-4 times maybe it’s time for a new venue. Clearly I need to educate myself on better ways to act at a club and maybe not spend my time haphazardly approaching people and just enjoy it. Granted you kinda have to make your own fun when you’re there alone. That’s why I went up to so many people. I felt out of place if I wasn’t talking to someone so I just talked to everyone. As for the girl on your campus did she turn you down every time or… | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 04:56 PM |
| 0 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulSo for me I would say maybe like a solid 70ish different people. Just about every convo with the guys was chill! Of the women I talked to. Some conversations died out, others went really well, had a lot of fun talking to them and learning their story. I guess no one really told me to go out and do it, I read you kinda gotta just put yourself out there maybe I did it a bit too much and certainly not in the right way. I’ll take your advice and just observe next time and kinda gauge how people are … | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 04:32 PM |
| 8 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulExactly and the post above summarizes and solidified that point. The second one I danced with was almost sober so she was into me and sober… that’s an eye opener | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulI mean maybe but I’m a guy in a club by myself talking to everyone. That’s red flag #1 whether I’m trying to talk to people or get laid that’s irrelevant | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 04:10 PM |
| 4 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulYeah I took a read and I can definitely see some similarities between what you wrote and what happened last night. Can’t do them simultaneously. Need to focus on them unilaterally. In retrospect I texted the girl after and I guess there was a lot of other shit going on that night but that she specifically told me she never felt threatened by me. Her friend actually ended up driving them home drunk and almost killed them. Long story short we’re going to get coffee because we were getting along we… | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 04:09 PM |
| 2 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulThis was an eye-opening read I never realized just how messed up the social structure of clubs are, I did just walk in the door not through a VIP or anything but I do better in sober conversations in terms of being able to just have a conversation and the line whether or not they’re interested is a lot less skewed. Thank you for your insight | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulYou make a good point I’ll take a read of that book | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 03:54 PM |
| 2 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulI mean it is an evil world but I feel like this is just an easy way to avoid thinking about what happened. Maybe it was someone cock blocking although, if it wasn’t, I made someone feel bad and at the end of the night that’s not good no matter who it was. Thank you for your insight tho, never once thought about this | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 10:17 AM |
| 3 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulOhhh that makes sense. And see that’s where I struggle, i never had the college experience or got invited to parties in HS. I focused on my studies a lot and just learning how to talk to and interact with people when you’re a couple years behind is challenging. You make mistakes that could other wise been told to you by some dad whose like “don’t do this shit dude, it’s not right” vs security giving you a firm verbal legal warning. Either way, no harm no fowl right? Just don’t do the same shit a… | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 10:05 AM |
| 3 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulTell me about it, when they started explaining it they said it’s so messed up but that women are completely different today as they were even 2-3 years ago and they’ve been working there for 10+ years so they’ve seen a decent bit. According to them they said to just be careful and that they will explicitly say whether or not you can follow/stay with them. They were actually very respectful and I think they knew I didn’t mean any harm but still. My aim is to be friendly not a creep. Gotta work on… | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 09:40 AM |
| 6 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulYou make a good point. As I said in another comment I think it was the “crossing paths” with people I’d met. You can only walk around the same small place so many times. It was definitely someone who I’d met earlier. Now that I think of it there was a group I met WAY early in the night and bumped into them about 3-4 times. God that’s so weird. I thought it was a completely different vibe like “fancy meeting you here were still here at the same bar” I realize now they said they had to go to the b… | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 09:35 AM |
| 3 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulI’m 6’2” and I uploaded my tinder for grilling a day or two ago and people said I looked like a good guy and a bi girl called me 8-8.5. 🤷♂️ my aim was not to make people uncomfortable just that somehow I made “multiple” girls feel uncomfortable because I was “following them” The only ones I followed were the ones that held my hand with them. I’m scratching my head so hard now to figure out who and what it was that I did. I’ve touched on some things I think I did wrong in the post. In addition I… | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Tinder is unsuccessful. Thinking of deleting it and only doing real life approaches.I mean I’m prepared to work on myself. Just I don’t have good pictures I think that’s truly what it boils down to. If I went with a photographer, took quality pictures and then proceeded to post them in sure I’d have more matches. Just gotta find a photographer | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Tinder is unsuccessful. Thinking of deleting it and only doing real life approaches.Yeah I can agree with that. Unless you’re a 10 or you atleast sell yourself as a 10 you won’t be successful. I think my issue is definitely pictures because people seem receptive IRL | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Tinder is unsuccessful. Thinking of deleting it and only doing real life approaches.So are you saying that since I’m not getting matches on tinder the same will probably happen in real life or are you just generalizing that? | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Tinder is unsuccessful. Thinking of deleting it and only doing real life approaches.Hey, I read your comment and I appreciate your kind words. This really helps and thank you for taking the time to write that out. Sometimes I forget that I’m good socially, with a large friend group and such but when I’m on the apps it’s so degrading since I don’t have good pictures. But that’s something that I can work on and it won’t change overnight but it’s something I can start to improve on | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Tinder is unsuccessful. Thinking of deleting it and only doing real life approaches.I could ask him. He’s a nice guy but I’m sure he’d be willing to do that for me. We’re all just trying to make it in this life. I talked to him on the phone one time and the chick he was hooking up with was there and he put it on speaker phone and she was all like “I have friends I can hook you up with” I’m sure this was an empty promise but it’s a possibility until it is proven it isn’t. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Tinder is unsuccessful. Thinking of deleting it and only doing real life approaches.Most of the matches I do get aren’t receptive to my first messages typically because they’ve seen the next best thing walk up (the next most attractive person) but I will try that. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Tinder is unsuccessful. Thinking of deleting it and only doing real life approaches.At this rate, I feel like I have had better interactions, more experiences a.k.a. making out with a girl at a club, having a girl give me her number after just making friendly conversation and then later that day she ended up sending me nudes, and having a girl actually start a conversation with me when we were in the elevator; this one I probably could’ve pursued more had I known what I know now. Never had these kind of experiences on tinder. My pictures are also not the best, I have some recen… | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Legality of cold approachesThank you for all your insight. I’m recovering from the flu and I’ve been in a hotel with my work for the past week. I’ve seen women standing by themselves in the lobby waiting for food to be delivered and I’ve passed them on the street as I’m walking to get dinner and my voice is so messed up I sound like a cyborg. I’ve wanted to go up to them and talk to them but I haven’t because I’m not my best self unfortunately. 6 Essentially that they were my first attempts and as soon as I asked for thei… | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Legality of cold approaches2 You make a good point, just the other day I was talking to someone and I wasn’t attracted to them until they became attracted to me, it was like a light switch first they weren’t interested then they were. I should’ve adapted to their style but I didn’t, I think because I was originally not interested in them and then when they switched I was caught off guard.. live and learn. (I was sick and not trying to meet anyone but I cracked a joke and she laughed, exchanged maybe a sentence or two and … | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Legality of cold approachesThanks for your thoughts, I never thought what I was doing was bad, just gotta get better at it is all | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Legality of cold approachesThat’s a really good point, so everything that I have done so far has been documented on my profile. To me a cold approach is being able to go up and talk to someone while being able to make a positive impact on their day, and have it be good enough that they would consider you more attractive based off the interaction. Essentially what I told my friend is that I am walking up to people making small talk and then asking them for their number. When in all reality I have not truly done what this c… | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Approached 2 got 2 numbers don’t feel good about it thoGood point illl research IOI and see what I can find out | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Approached 2 got 2 numbers don’t feel good about it thoVery good information. You hit the nail right on the head by simply asking for directions, it’s literally just what a kind person would do and then when I’m like “you seem cool let’s crab coffee” it’s a true smack in the face, like why tf is this guy talking to me rn. Looking back I probably made them feel very awkward which was not my intention and just thinking about that puts me off a bit. I’ll take a look at the other threads and see what I can find. Would you suggest something like. “Hey lo… | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Approached 2 got 2 numbers don’t feel good about it thoAlso, the career I’m going into has a lot of beautiful women and have been told by many that sleeping with those beautiful women you work with will not be difficult however, I’ve also been told to never get into a long term relationship with said beautiful women because they’re known to cheat. I’m taking it with a grain of salt. We will see what happens. Just trying to build myself up for the rest of my life. I’ve been sheltered most of my life and I’m 25. Feel like I’ve missed out on a lot but … | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Approached 2 got 2 numbers don’t feel good about it thoI’ll watch his vids but I did just watch Todd v’s videos and they made me feel like crap. I tend to do better understanding things through reading and then putting my own spin on things because then my brain thinks it’s “my idea” and my brain is better able to accept it. But maybe I should give the videos another chance. Just gotta find the right guy I guess. You make a good point, so I travel for work a lot so for me making friends is a bit of a challenge since I’m not able to hang out with the… | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Approached 2 got 2 numbers don’t feel good about it thoWell I’ve only done it twice and it worked with both so I’m 2 for 2 right now which I think was pure dumb luck. That’s a good point, leads to a bit of mystery since they don’t know my intentions. Also my openers were very neutral they weren’t flirty so I’ll have to read Wehr you suggested and try that out. Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Approached 2 got 2 numbers don’t feel good about it thoThat’s what I think I need to do but day game I’d def more difficult than night game. It’ll take some practice but practice makes perfect. Do you think I should use a different openers? | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | First time going out to a club and I went solo. Absolutely unreal experience. Hopefully you can take what I did and apply it to your own life!Yeah that’s my bad I have to work on delivery but I wanted to try and give the best description of what I did so hopefully others could learn. It’s not the prettiest post but in time it will get better just like our game. It takes time and experience. That vague urge is inner man telling you you want/need to do this. I’ve dreamt of bringing home a 10 and going at it until the early hours of the next morning. It’s just our primal instinct talking… listen to it because every day you say no to that… | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | First time going out to a club and I went solo. Absolutely unreal experience. Hopefully you can take what I did and apply it to your own life!So something I left out… early in the night when we grabbed the drink she said she was going to go to the bathroom and told me to “WAIT HERE AND DONT MOVE I WILL BE RIGHT BACK I PROMISE” so I waited and she returned. Later in the night it was about 30 minutes or so until they closed and she said she was going to head to the restroom. Me being me I stood exactly where I was… which at the time was in the middle of the dance floor. I didn’t even think to follow her. Thought that’d be creepy. Then a… | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | First time going out to a club and I went solo. Absolutely unreal experience. Hopefully you can take what I did and apply it to your own life!As an intermediate? I’m just beginning!! This was my first experience with it I feel next time is going to be a bit more of a challenge since it won’t be my first time there and the majority of the conversations started because it was actually my first time there. You have any pointers for starters for the second time around? I guess I could always just use the “new to the area, and I really like this place” kind of starter but that sounds like I frequent this place way too much. Idk we’ll see. … | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | First time going out to a club and I went solo. Absolutely unreal experience. Hopefully you can take what I did and apply it to your own life!Happy to help! Good luck in Vegas! | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | First time going out to a club and I went solo. Absolutely unreal experience. Hopefully you can take what I did and apply it to your own life!Whatcha mean? I’m sorry I don’t understand 😬 | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 01:26 AM |
| 2 | First time going out to a club and I went solo. Absolutely unreal experience. Hopefully you can take what I did and apply it to your own life!Happy to help man, we’re all learning it together. I also really try to smile at everyone. Life is too short to be bitter or cold to others, everyone is stuck on this damn planet, might as well be nice to eachother | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 05:58 PM |
| 4 | First time going out to a club and I went solo. Absolutely unreal experience. Hopefully you can take what I did and apply it to your own life!You say you’re only 5’4. But in the sentence before you said you have looks in the face department. That for you is your ace of spades (I don’t play poker but you know what I mean) chase it. Your face is what they’re gonna be looking at, I saw some 6’7 girls last night and I was like I was gonna go up to them and comment on their height and I did. I wasn’t expecting anything out of it and one of the guys they were with even backed off a bit when I approached which I’m not sure is a normal thing.… | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 05:46 PM |
| 4 | First time going out to a club and I went solo. Absolutely unreal experience. Hopefully you can take what I did and apply it to your own life!So for me I try to look at life in a bit of a unique way. My whole mindset is that of positivity. The glass is never half empty it is always half full. Also when I was in my relationship for four years I put a lot of effort into that relationship and didn’t focus on me. I made that realization that at the end of the day I am the only person who I can count on. No matter what you do in this life you will always have yourself. I’ve taken myself out to dinner, I’ve taken myself to the park, I have … | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 04:55 PM |
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