So I’m pretty sure I’m being ignored and only used bc she only seems to like talking to me. So we’ve been talking for a month now. We met up after talking for two weeks, just chilled in the car and talked for hours and ended on a passionate kiss tbh. We even talked about after how that kiss was just different. Now the second time we hang out she tells me some intimate stuff, her trauma so I can ‘understand’ specially if we’re gonna go forward - her words. However after that we ended up having a talk about our issues in relationships and stuff and decided to just talk and see how it goes. Now it’s been nice talking to her but every time I try to ask her out she says she’s busy or wtvr. However, she still sends thoughtful texts and texts a lot. But then again, she responded to my iMessage where we’re just talking about shit but not my snap where I was being more sincere. She’s posted on her snap and shit but not responding on there. So now, I feel like she’s ignoring me and just likes talking to me.

I do realize I kinda messed up pulling back after she shared something very intimate with me. I got intimacy issues so I’m just now realizing I did that out of almost an automatic reflex, didn’t even think about it much.

Anyways what do y’all think I should do next? I’ve been thinking about ghosting her or just saying it’s not working out and leave it but I’m not sure. And if im being used or not as just someone to talk to.