Am I Broken?

puaCurveBall · 2014-10-07T23:49:24+00:00

Game is for guys who want to get better. If you don't have that desire, no one should judge you. If you want to be alone, then be alone. It is just a different path.

It sounds like you are not really connecting with these women. I think you would have better luck if you opened up a bit more and were comfortable being vulnerable, and pushing them to communicate more honestly.

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-10-08T01:37:16+00:00

Pretty much everyone on earth is broken, to some degree.

Don't give up. You will fail with women every time, until you find the one you succeed with.

thatsweatykid · 2014-10-08T01:43:31+00:00

Broken? Nope. You are just fed up with your lack of real connections with quality women. Take this opportunity to date yourself. Treat yourself nice. Improve yourself. Work on your basic social interactions with any and everyone. Subscribe to the idea that every conversation you have with a person can make or break their day. Go into every interaction thinking to yourself, how can I establish a real and personal connection with this person? Some will be receptive, some won't. The idea is that by making this a habit, you'll be able to call on this skill whenever the time arises. In essence, improve your "game" with anyone, not just women.

LogicManifesto · 2014-10-08T04:01:21+00:00

Ok here's the thing, If I had 7 hands, I could count the number of girls I've slept with, but I'm like you in the sense that I don't enjoy spending the night with people. Granted, if I bang a chick and she is at least good in bed, I won't sneak out (with the hopes of getting some morning pussy too, which usually works out) but if I had my way, I would sleep in my own bed alone each night.

However, there is something kind of nice about sleeping in the same bed as someone else, that you can't really explain unless you've experienced it. I highly suggest doing it sometime.

The way that you're talking, you don't seem to have much confidence when it comes to girls, and the thing about girls, is they don't give a fuck what words come out of your mouth. Women don't think logically, so you could tell them all of the perfect facets of your life and why you are literally the best possible guy to date/have sex with, and they will just look past you and go fuck the guy that spikes their emotions.

Women connect through feelings and emotions, and they are like vultures hovering above weakened prey, sensing every insecurity you have, and believe me, if you show any sign of weakness, they won't be interested. That is simply how they work.

If you want to get laid, you need to do a couple things. The most important thing is get comfortable with yourself (Are you healthy? Are you good-looking? What can you do to make yourself more attractive?) The second most important thing is to create a persona that you can turn on at any minute around girls. Girls like guys that are the life of the party and make them feel like they are part of that life as well. Girls want to FEEL, they don't want to THINK (well, some do, but you don't want to fuck those girls, you might want to date those girls)

I personally am a very rational, logic-based person that doesn't believe in using emotions to make decisions, but I'll be damned if when I go out to the club or bar, I wear the brightest smile and act as though I'm the star of the event, and it works every. single. time.

also, go on youtube and watch every video from RSDTyler, RSDAlex, RSDTodd and RSDMax

PS You said "I am content being alone. I like it." Bullshit. Being content is a good way to live a boring fucking life.

reedsposer22 · 2014-10-07T23:54:23+00:00

You seem like you need to work on just having convo with women first. The sex will come after

DaygameCoach · 2014-10-08T00:26:35+00:00

If you THINK you are broken, you are.

statclasssucks · 2014-10-08T03:46:28+00:00

Whats a kik?

throwawayodd33 · 2014-10-08T04:42:07+00:00

Sounds like you aren't making connections with them. How about meeting them through a similar interest or something?

betarex · 2014-10-08T09:24:24+00:00

Memorizing routines isn't great for holding their interest. You need to be interesting yourself, or at least think you are. If you don't think you are, why should anyone else?

Self improvement first, pussy/relationship later. Eat healthy, go to the gym, take up some classes (yoga, dance, guitar), do some group activities to expand your social network - thereby giving you more stories to tell, as well as more people to help you find the one - some activities could be a weekly bookclub, amateur paint and wine night, some local band show, or even just walking around an area for a couple hours and just talking to everyone.

invinciblesummmer · 2014-10-09T00:34:38+00:00

No man, you just to be real, genuine and in turn you will find real, genuine people.

Title	Am I Broken?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	9
Comments	14
Date	October 7, 2014 11:33 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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