I have a question. Is it still considered progress that I can communicate with women online more easily than in person? While I know that a screen can help me feel more comfortable being myself, I want to understand if I'm truly improving. Although the women I talk to online may not be the most attractive, I want to be able to get the attention of more attractive women or engage with them effortlessly.

I still struggle with approaching women and starting conversations because I feel nervous at the beginning, often speak too quietly, or find myself stumbling over my words and not making sense. For example, with a female co-worker or friend, I can talk freely and just be myself without any worries.

The only advantage I notice when talking to women over the phone is that my voice tends to carry the conversation for me.

I need Help!!!