AMA request- naturals

2012-04-05T16:30:38+00:00

I'm just an old married guy now, but from reading The Game and lurking around here a bit, I guess from my teens til my 30's I was (and I guess still am) what you'd consider a natural. I'm pretty average in looks, build, and income level. I've never had a problem talking to women, always got laid if that was my goal. I often had friends ask, "how do you do it?". I somehow always become the "leader" in any group, seemingly by default (instant social proof), I'm fairly gregarious, and I guess my "don't give a fuck attitude" (no outcome dependence) always ingratiated me with new people pretty easily. Until reading some of the PUA material, I just thought I was the lucky guy, but I guess I'm a natural?

sithyiscool · 2012-04-05T16:58:33+00:00

The naturals I've met and seen have this in common: They don't feel constrained by the invisible social boundaries/rules that we all fear breaking. They just act and l know thay these social fences never really existed in the first place.

If they do get a bad reaction, they shrug it off, remove any negative feeling and continue.

helloeleni · 2012-04-05T18:14:02+00:00

I don't think I'd consider myself a natural, but if getting laid is my only objective, I've never really been turned down. People are extremely easy to manipulate (for lack of a better word) if you take five seconds to analyze their speech patterns and body language. If you mirror what they do (and are more graceful at it), and pretend to care about what they're saying (but not too much), they're going to be attracted to you. Make them feel wanted, but at the same time remind them that you could be gone at a moment's notice. They attach to you like a puppy. At least this is my experience.

Of course, you can be really good-looking, charming, interesting, and kind, too. That would probably qualify as being "a natural."

googlemecrazzzzy · 2012-04-05T21:19:36+00:00

Well this is good- but what about all the road blocks 'the average guy' hits- are you all oblivious to them or is it simply that you all were raised or learned to completely ignore it. What im getting at is were you all taught or was it indeed natural? And secondly, you talk about reading people basically or manipulating them- I used to be able to do this but Ive since turned my back on it and have gotten rather rusty, can one of you give an example- just a short one should suffice

2012-04-06T06:37:01+00:00

Real naturals just start learning this stuff at a very young age... like basically from the age they start getting boners.

Positive connections with women early on give them a nice self-esteem boost and an early realization that they can get anything they want from women without trying. So the stop trying early on, which then leads them to the realization that not trying just makes it even easier... and so fourth.

A real natural doesn't follow patterns, they are ingrained with them, and ironically most of them don't seem to have a clue as to why they are great with women (in my experience). They usually just think they are super badasses and so women are drawn to them, which once again is a great attitude to have for getting more poonaner.

Better to ask questions to a pro who was once in your shoes and know why his shit works, than a guy who doesn't know what it feels like to start from square one. For observation in the field, naturals are great though.

You can learn all sorts of nifty tricks from just watching them in action. The hard part is spotting them, they usually blend in pretty seemlessly.

Title	AMA request- naturals
Author	googlemecrazzzzy
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	April 5, 2012 4:06 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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