An Approach A Day [5 & 6]

s0craduction · 2013-05-17T22:47:17+00:00

That's really a terrible text. When you get the number that means nothing unless you've already seeded a day 2 into the conversation, and she wants to meet up. Try to mention cool things you are doing in the next couple weeks and see if she gets amped about any of them. then later bring it back up and suggest she join you and you'll text her to hammer out the details.

Saying this is blank we met at blank did you have fun is super low value. It's what every AFC says, you want to stand out from the pack. This communicates that your unsure if she had fun and that she probably doesn't remember you. Two super low value things to communicate.

Next time don't get her number EXCHANGE numbers. One thing I like to do is take a picture together on her phone and then take her phone to send it to mine. I then program myself into her phone and add the picture to my name. Then when you text her it pops up with a pic of you two together and you know she already knows who it is. You can also have some fun with this and tease her to stop making goofy faces or tell her to stop squinting if she's Asian etc.

If you can't program your self into her phone text her a joke calling up something you talked about that night if you give her a nickname use that. Then just sign your text instead of saying this is x. Example say you met a girl from Kansas and were teasing her about that all night: "Hey Kansas, when I come visit we definitely have to see the worlds largest ball of twine, I can't wait. lol -s0carduction" or a version of yours without communicating anything low value could be "Hey HB great meeting you the other night. I always meet the coolest people at (bar you were at) -nopetoday" it communicates all the same points but comes across way differently.

TommyPUA · 2013-05-17T12:23:33+00:00

Awesome dude, good luck!

1vibe · 2013-05-17T19:08:04+00:00

See: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ecmm8/how_i_go_from_number_to_first_date/

Title	An Approach A Day [5 & 6]
Author	nopetoday
Upvotes	11
Comments	4
Date	May 17, 2013 10:34 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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