So I've never really persued women which is a weird thing to say. I believe myself to be a good looking guy who garners a fair amount of female attention and bc of this Ive never really approached women and I've always let them come to me. But the thing is I find that the women I want and the women that approach me aren't always the same. What do I do here? Is the answer learn to cold approach, lower my (admittedly really high) standards, or change my mannerisms to attract different people?