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[–]Aeon199 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
"Money/status"
Erm, no. "If you lack in some way, money or forget it." Again, no.
Would you tell an autistic guy (median functioning) "have money or forget it"? Is that the message anyone needs?
Rethink your assumptions. Losers, including autistic guys, can still find what they want within reason. Limitations to being a scrub or "socially challenged" (these 2 overlap very often) include not having many options, and probably being barred from serious relationship. It doesn't mean you can't meet decent women though, doesn't mean you can't get date, doesn't mean you can't get action.
It's not as if a scrub like that would go on dating sites and only expect to get replies from women who have few options themselves; this is both cynical and untrue. That's the kind of thinking that lowers morale and lights the path toward unhealthy belief systems, like RP. You can throw a rock in places like that, and end up in a thread discussing concepts like "autistic guys need status and money to compensate" and the same things being said for guys with other types of differences. I still can't believe anyone is supporting beliefs like this, in this day and age. What use is it?
You can be past 30 with no career, and find what you're looking for. Even if you're homeless. Some women like strange things, and some of them not just "because they can't do better themselves." Where does anyone get this stuff? Not true.
[–]godeepon3 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lower my (admittedly really high) standards
yep. It's fine to have standards for a relationship. But why have standards, especially high standards, for dating? Figure out your goals, including short term goals, and see what types of females fit that. If you just want to enjoy life and have some fun, 3s, 4s and 5s can be a lot of fun.
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