There seems to be a lot of oneitis posts around here but no stories about how any former oneitis starts chasing you once you've moved on and became a better version of yourself. I'm pretty interested to hear how much anyone has changed and became better after forgetting their former oneitis, and how they deal with the said oneitis afterwards. Perhaps your stories can motivate others to start moving on from their oneitis.

PS: Just make sure you're not using the stories as a inspiration to get that oneitis "coming around" and chasing you. PS II: Sorry for my English.