I live in a HUGE ass city. Top 1-5 in terms of population, worldwide.

And even then, when going out, I usually find out that a lot of people in the bar are about 2-3 degrees of separation from either me or friends. It's ridiculous.

It's been a mental block for me since I can't go "all out" trying the whole seduction thing for fear of someone thinking I'm a creep or something. It's dumb, but I feel that way.

How do you overcome your fear of creepiness? I feel as if I have to go to places where I wouldn't normally go out to, and to be honest the hottest girls are usually in the bars / clubs / areas I frequent.