Anyone that implemented vulnerability successfully can help me?

Jacob_961 · 2016-01-27T12:04:07+00:00

Giving your all at something is the best form of vulnrability and is super difficult to do because people don't like to put themselves on the line and be come up short. It takes massive balls. Approaching makes you vulnerable to rejection. Being loud makes you vulnerable to being judged. People don't want to find out how good they are because putting an effort and not measuring up would shatter their already wounded egos.

JakeApproaches · 2016-01-27T22:45:53+00:00

Be vulnerable by yourself first.

Cry.

When was the last time you were super depressed, sad, angry.. Take that memory and try to tie it to a song. Lock yourself in your room, lay down on your bed, apply headphones, play the song, close your eyes, and replay the memory in your head.

If you're doing it right, you'll probably start getting a tingling feeling in your stomach. That's pain. Feeling that pain will help your compassion and empathy.

Once you can feel that for yourself, you can feel it for others.

(Message me if you want more steps.)

Title	Anyone that implemented vulnerability successfully can help me?
Author	Real_Cuban_Pete
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	January 27, 2016 10:45 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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