Approach anxiety

SMSD2020 · 2020-06-25T16:26:19+00:00

You get to control the ingress and egress of the situation. Start very small. Approach a stranger and give them a compliment on (not their body) or mention something about the surroundings. "I really like your purse, necklace, shoes, socks, book you're readying, way you ordered starbucks, whatever. OR This place is pretty cool, I like how it's quiet, do you like the view, whatever" Then leave after they say thanks\answer.

Easy leaving strategy: "have a great day!" and walk away

Do that 5 or 10 times to ease your nerves.

Then do a compliment\statement and a follow up question, give a statement as exampled above and then say, "Where did you get it, is there a story behind it, are you a fashion designer, is this your normal style or outside of it, do you always read these kind of books, whatever whatever". Then leave after they answer.

Easy leaving strategy: "Woah cool, thanks for sharing, have a great day!" and walk away.

Do that 3-5 times to get in a groove.

Finally, approach, compliment\remark + question and then use the information they give to give them something of yourself and a follow up question. Looks like this:

YOU: "It's incredibly sunny out here, I can't believe I forgot my sunglasses. You look like you're having a good time though, are you more of an outdoor person or indoor person?"

THEM: "I like the outdoors more."

YOU: "I also like the outdoors more, let's get married. Hiking is my favorite outdoor activity, what's yours?"

THEM: WHATEVER

But basically a conversation goes like, your question, their response, you validate their response, give a statement related to it, and follow it up with a question or let them ask one.

Enjoy and crush your day.

Huracanlove · 2020-06-25T17:18:30+00:00

First you could maybe just start asking Girls, what time it is Or At the Gym go to a Girl and ask her on which Set she is at the moment. Or Just ask a Girl if she could recommend you a place to eat for you and your Boys maybe Etc. You get what I'm trying to say You don't have to always ask for every girls number. Just get a feeling to just talk to Women in general first. (If you have in general anxiety to just talk with Girls)

h1mera · 2020-06-26T08:19:48+00:00

You should ask yourself a question: what are your fears?

Most probably it's not fear of rejection as it's easy to cure.

Most people's fear of not understanding what will happen next. Fear of the unknown. Like: will she reject me, will she give me her phone number or will she tell me to fuck off?

Title	Approach anxiety
Author	learnersoul
Upvotes	5
Comments	8
Date	June 25, 2020 4:13 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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