Approaching at the gym ?

TheHalfMonty · 2020-01-07T20:44:20+00:00

I don't because I workout hard and I look like shit, sweaty and disheveled while I workout. So that wouldn't be the best way to introduce myself.

axe122 · 2020-01-08T04:47:35+00:00

I have a few girls at the gym I believe are interested as they go outa their way to talk to me and constantly make eye contact across the gym. I have a new girl now so I’m not really tryna complicate that. I talk to and flirt with all the girls at the gym, I just don’t ask for numbers cuz I’m already with someone. I talk to them when they are on the treadmill. It’s hard to lift weights and talk unless you drop what your doing to do so. Some of the ones I’ve talked to on the treadmill stop and talk with me as I’ve already laid out some ground work. There’s definitely a difference between friendly and friendzoned. It’s harder to get them to engage when they are running but if they are walking just go walk on the treadmill next to them and open them within a min or 2 or it’s weird for them. Even if they have headphones on I tap them on the shoulder, some girls don’t want talk you can tell cuz they don’t take their hands off their headphones. I was running to he numbers and 7/10 girls talked with me. I often start with a false time constraint and get out within 15 min even if it’s really going well but I’m not tryna pull or get numbers just keep my approaches and game tight and be social. It’s nice being the more popular guy at the gym cu nobody else even talks to each other at all so all the girls see the other girls saying hi. I can’t say for sure I would sleep with these girls but I’ve slept with enough girls I lost count so I have a pretty good sense of who’s interested at this point. I get the same vibe from a lot of them that I get from girls who wanna go out with me and sleep with me.

I know in normal day game approach you always ask for the number at least cuz why not but at the gym because you go a lot you might wanna try feeling out the situation before you ask. Only cuz if you get rejected you don’t want the reputation as the guy who asks out all the girls at the gym and gets rejected by them all. girls don’t want guys other girls rejected.

Maybe try working a long game where you flirt with them leave and continue to say hi. After a few times of saying hi talk with them again and ask for their number. That’s what I would do even if I was single based on the response I’ve been getting.

It reminds me more of how guys got girls in school. Flirt walk away flirt walk away, you’ll see them again anyway so it’s more of a long game.

Obviously any standard cold approach you should just ask for the number right away and always.

RinzenKali · 2020-01-08T10:30:36+00:00

Please look up the many, many posts that women have made about being hit on while they're trying to work out. Those hot girls look like they don't want to be approached, because they really don't want to be approached. Respect that.

From your perspective: it's a gamble to risk it. You'll likely be rejected (they are likely just there to work out, not pick up guys), worst case scenario they'll inform staff or other women if they think you're too forward, so you might even be kicked out of the gym.

EDIT: see https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/eja7ln/a_question_for_women_is_it_off_limits_to_approach/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share where the top comments are men saying "go for it dude", yet a lot of comments are women saying "No".

smgtn · 2020-01-08T11:59:48+00:00

I wouldn't. Having said that, the only way this can work is if you approach indirectly and get a solid positive reaction to go further.

BlackBeltDater · 2020-01-08T16:40:23+00:00

Only approach if you are tall, less than %10 body fat and good looking.

If you are average, don't bother unless she is average looking as well.

Title	Approaching at the gym ?
Author	michaelsca99
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Date	January 7, 2020 8:35 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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